Ex-girlfriends..

I guess i would agree, you split up for a reason, maybe if circumstances have changed then it could be different. I guess the longer you think about her/it then the longer itll take to get over her.
 
People can and do change, usually by growing up. This alone can mean that previous relationships may work better the 2nd time around.
 
I tried to keep in touch with some, but they either lose interest or I did. It's great if you can stay friends, but I just couldn't do it. I needed complete closure, and rid myself of them from my life, else the wound keeps seeping - and I was tired of bleeding.
 
malc30 said:
What are you lot on about. :confused:
Of course I am freinds with my X girlfs, Especially the ones that rode well. Over the years I get regular phone calls off X's as they know me & know if I am single then they can pop round for some riding.
I have Never been able to understand somebody who can go to bed with someone one minute & then not even speak to them after, How rude & Why would I cut my nose off to spite my face. Wise up Dudes there are many a free ride with the X's. :cool:
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Very true indeed.
 
Freefaller said:
I tried to keep in touch with some, but they either lose interest or I did. It's great if you can stay friends, but I just couldn't do it. I needed complete closure, and rid myself of them from my life, else the wound keeps seeping - and I was tired of bleeding.
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Oh Will, you're such an emo :D:p

Oh, and don't you know, chick dig scars :cool:
 
Freefaller said:
:D

Hey man I got burnt - left me heartbroken. So I went out and behaved rather badly :o But hey you live you learn! I wouldn't have met Sam otherwise. :)
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Looks like it all turned out for the best then, in fact it looks like a blessing in disguise. The burnt bit, not Sam :p
 
there's only one of my ex's that I'm not in contact with, and that may be because I was her first and for her it came out of the blue.

my other ex's one i've just broken up with, so we're still chatting and making sure everything is ok, and staying good friends, another we broke up cause she was mental, but still chat and have a good laugh, she was a very good laugh and had a mind almost as dirty as my own, and the other (my first love as SecretSpy put it), we talk lots, and meet up occasionally to catch up and stuff, both still very attracted to each other, might meet up for some fun, but we'd never go back to each other, broke up because of distance, but stayed apart because of the breakup.

the one i've just broken up with, I would consider going back to, as things were fun, but too much going on for me at the moment.
we did however decide if we're both single by our 30's we'd end up with each other as a contingency plan >.<
 
I guess it depends on how it ended, happy to say im still friends with a few of my ex's, or if I bumped into them in the street I would still stop for a chat, there arent any in particular i'd like to kill. Lifes too short to keep pent up anger about past things fuelled inside you, its not healthy.

I spose it helps that I was friends with them beforehand, so once all the feelings are gone then its been pretty easy to slip back into the friends thing. At least it has been in my case. I cant say that I would want any of them back, most are now with other people, one is getting married next year, and I am honestly happy for them.
 
Unless they did something particularly unpleasant to you then there's no reason why you can't at least be friends: there was a reason at one point that you got on and meant a lot to each other.

I'd try not to go back to an ex but it could happen if I ended up moving on, then somewhere down the line really regretting it.
 
I have most of my ex's on facebook, we don't actively talk but there is no grudge there. Also no potential nookie there.

One major ex, there was no way we could've stayed in contact. AFAIK, she denies I ever existed and I pine. Fun times.

(as always, I love Malc's post)
 
I get on well with mine. Heck, just got back from dinner with her after going dancing.

I see no reason why you can't be friends if the break-up's fine.
 
malc30 said:
What are you lot on about. :confused:
Of course I am freinds with my X girlfs, Especially the ones that rode well. Over the years I get regular phone calls off X's as they know me & know if I am single then they can pop round for some riding.
I have Never been able to understand somebody who can go to bed with someone one minute & then not even speak to them after, How rude & Why would I cut my nose off to spite my face. Wise up Dudes there are many a free ride with the X's. :cool:
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made me laugh so much my heart hurts
 
Freefaller said:
I tried to keep in touch with some, but they either lose interest or I did. It's great if you can stay friends, but I just couldn't do it. I needed complete closure, and rid myself of them from my life, else the wound keeps seeping - and I was tired of bleeding.
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Aaww...you're so sweet.
 
Creature said:
I get on well with mine. Heck, just got back from dinner with her after going dancing.

I see no reason why you can't be friends if the break-up's fine.
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It works out for some people to be exactly like that - but not for all as it depends on so many factors.

It depends on the breakup. I've broken hearts and as such never heard from them again. Others we just had little in common and faded away. Had my heart broken... etc... I don't hold any vitriol or bad feelings towards those that went their separate ways, and I know some of them are married, and have been invited to weddings of theirs etc... There really are a lot of different factors to consider.
 
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