Ex-girlfriends..

Freefaller said:
I tried to keep in touch with some, but they either lose interest or I did. It's great if you can stay friends, but I just couldn't do it. I needed complete closure, and rid myself of them from my life, else the wound keeps seeping - and I was tired of bleeding.
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That's interesting. Broke up with my now ex-GF about 3 months ago (her decision). Miss talking to her and doing stuff together and want to ring/text her all the time, but apart from the odd text message have resisted so far basically because even the slightest snub is going to hurt like hell, and also because she's not initiating anything. Still find it difficult coming to terms with the situation.

Got any advice?
 
MarkDavis said:
That's interesting. Broke up with my now ex-GF about 3 months ago (her decision). Miss talking to her and doing stuff together and want to ring/text her all the time, but apart from the odd text message have resisted so far basically because even the slightest snub is going to hurt like hell, and also because she's not initiating anything. Still find it difficult coming to terms with the situation.

Got any advice?
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Stick it in someone else.

Its the sure fire way to get over the last one.
 
I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years about 6 weeks ago. Because apart from anything else we'd just been arguing recently, and then she had to go back to Mexico and stay there rather than being able to carry on with uni in England (£ :().

The last thing I said to her was "Fine!" as I ended the conversation; it was the first day on my holiday and I'd taken time to talk to her while family waited for me at dinner.

Maybe I overreacted; perhaps now I'm having second thoughts, who knows. I haven't talked to her since then. But she was breaking up with me anyway so maybe I'd simply be in trouble for under-reacting when she said she couldn't come back to England.

I don't know either way and am just ignoring it. I'm far, far too busy working 14 - 16hr days recently. This was one of the problems, she stayed at mine for a few weeks and didn't have a great time unfortunately. Funny though that when she went back to Mexico initially and got a job, and hence wasn't online much, I just understood why rather than getting ****ed!

Ho hum ho hum eh.
 
Stolly said:
Stick it in someone else.

Its the sure fire way to get over the last one.
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I have. And it isn't.

It's the emotionall intimacy, acceptance and the companionship that I miss. Having someone around who greets you after a long day, sends you cute messages out of the blue, someone gives you a hug (and who can hug back), someone who open up to you emotionally, someone who you can chat with at any time of the day, someone shares their personal stuff with you etc. All of that, and the trust that goes with it, takes ages to build up :(
 
Am Still very good friends with my last ex girlfriend of 2 years.......
But we didn't really spilt up,,as her family went to live in a different country and she went with them..
 
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