Ex-girlfriends..

Freefaller said:
It works out for some people to be exactly like that - but not for all as it depends on so many factors.

It depends on the breakup. I've broken hearts and as such never heard from them again. Others we just had little in common and faded away. Had my heart broken... etc... I don't hold any vitriol or bad feelings towards those that went their separate ways, and I know some of them are married, and have been invited to weddings of theirs etc... There really are a lot of different factors to consider.
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This sounds like prime gory details for drunken conversations. I look forward to it ;) :p
 
Freefaller said:
Well you know me Jen - I try. :)

That was my "one" though - so it's always going to burn that little bit more.

Still, boogieing the night away with medical students cured me of all ills! ;) :D
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That cures most things darling! I need some curing tbh....dance soon yeah? x
 
stinamoo said:
Me and Sam will have plenty of fun without you guys :p

I think getting back with ex's can work depending on the relationship and the reason you broke up. Too many factors to list :)
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Now my mind is going into overdrive.... :o :D :cool:


I've had "on and off" relationships - and I agree you can get back together with an ex, but you have to be honest as to what you both want. Often it's because people get together a bit too young and one of the two gets a little claustrophobic and wants to spread their wings a little, see the world, live life etc... They go and do that, and then it either all comes back together, or they've moved on from one another.

Some people never feel claustrophobic about it... there never is one rule for everything - that's what makes relationships so fascinating and exciting!
 
I'm recently single and in my own new place as things were just getting a bit tense in our flat. Part of the problem is she is a few years younger than me and just wants a bit more freedom. She's said that she still loves me and doesn't want to let me go but she was feeling uncomfortable in a relationship, she even said that she wants to get back together when the time is right. We still get on like a house on fire and she still flirts with me like crazy so I'm pretty sure I still have full pasty smashing access :D

Like has been said, it depends on a lot of things :)
 
I kept in contact with my first girlfriend, she is a lovely person, but for some reason has decided to stop talking to me. The other two after her I don't speak to because they're headcases.
 
It's depended upon the break-up, but on the whole my exes (there's not the multitude of them that it sounds like!) and I have managed to stay on fairly good terms.
Can sometimes be a bit odd if you or they are in another relationship, but I think you can still have a strong friendship if you left each other amicably and for good reasons.
 
Burning in hell for all eternity would be too good for some of them (from my point of view)
I'm sure the same ones feel the same about me.
One, I wish I never broken up with as doing so broke her heart. She has never spoken to me since. :(
The rest are all "meh" keep it polite but still feels a little awkward
 
Don't see or speak to any of my ex's, haven't for years. Wouldn't even know how to get in touch with them.

I've been with the same bird now for 8 years or so and have even moved cities while being with her....whole new set of friends and life now.
 
It depends on the break up and general circumstances. I don't speak to one of them, whilst with the other we seperated due to distance and ended up back together when living in the same city a year later.
 
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