at the end of the day dlss is a little mehh on first person shooters causing latency
Not sure what you mean by causing latency? Overall DLSS will reduce latency due to it reducing frame time. It's also worth noting that DLSS 2.1 is now being used in VR, an area that is very sensitive to latency. Nvidia Reflex, where supported, will also reduce input latency.
lets just up the AMD version doesnt do the same
AMD are in a mess of their own making by producing a stripped down budget concious cost and power limited chip for the consoles, RDNA2. This can be seen by the lack luster RT performance which also gives a performance hint of what is to come. At best we can hope that RDNA3 is not held back by MS and Sony.