FIFA has just gone the way of the COD/Football Manager series, or will do, with it's best days gone and to never return. I always knew 19 would be poor when it's main advertisement of the game was Champions League mode, FIFA 20 will probably be celebrating it has VAR included.
I'm glad I only put a pittance into it and managed to build up a decent team with just playing the game, and despite playing it a lot, I still class myself as a casual gamer so I just can't get that involved in things that happen whilst playing, especially when its going to happen to me and the opposition player. I still don't see the gameplay changes or button lag, but again I just refuse to get myself that embroiled in the detail of the game, maybe it's an age thing.