Jeff piece of advice mate, (and im going to be as rational as i can be here) your not thinking this through properly
If your going to blow this ammount of money, dont do something you will regret, as the problem with new cars is, is that you loose several thousand from the moment you take delivery. Its then no longer new, but becomes used. If you change your mind, you cant get any of that money back.
Now heres your problem, you've relatively little else to compare the car too, so it seems good. Take yourself to one of the car supermarkets like Car Craft etc.. Dont buy from there as they'll stich you up like a kipper and sell you a lemon. But.... its the only place you can sit in and play with as many cars as you want. You can go sit in an S2000, an BMW 3 Series Convertible, an Audi A4 'vert, an Audi TT, just about any car you want. Sit in the drivers seat, play with the switches and open / close doors. Get yourself a shortlist of at least 3 or 4 cars that you really liked when you sat in them. Find yourself a good example of these at your local dealer and go drive them.
Even if you drive all of these cars and decide you like the focus, fine. But at least you've not made a decision you will regret.
Oh and another thing worth noting, the whole abuse thing with 2nd hand cars ? go watch the episode of traffic cops where they get called to Hull docs. The Honda was written off before it even got to the dealers as he was drink driving and stuck it in a ditch. When you get your new car, it will probably have about 20 miles or something on. None of these miles will have been gentle, they will have been driven by some oik of a workman who doesnt give a damn and enjoys thrashing other peoples new cars. It happens all the time and theres nothing you can do about it. it may even be scratched / kicked or all sorts before it reaches you, but the dealer does a pre collection "prep" that repairs all of that. But you'd be none the wiser..
Seriously, buy a one year, or 18 month old one. You still get 2 years warranty, that lovely new car feeling and all with the bulk of the depreciation taken by some other muppet.