Gay Showers!!

Admiral Huddy · 9 May 2006 at 19:54

BrightonBelle said:
I hope you said this as a result of my last post

If not, how the hell do you know!?

BB x

ever seen Porkies

from i friend who told me LOL

panthro · 9 May 2006 at 19:55

basmic said:
I suppose you'd report the two men, as well - just for being friendly with each other.

aha! your a funny guy.

If the guy is genuinely checking him out and giving him unwanted attention that he doesnt want, they why shouldnt he?

I probably wouldnt report him, but what are the other alternatives? either ignoring him and letting him perv on you, or confronting him and telling him to not check you out.

Arcade Fire · 9 May 2006 at 19:56

panthro said:
The thing that really irritates me in the gym is when you see two blokes standing infront of each other completely starkers talking about their golfing handicaps or their jobs (or anything else that you wouldnt talk to someone about while you are naked).......why!!!!? They're not your girlfriend (or boyfriend)

"My handicap is that my willy is just this damn big."

*gestures*

-|ScottFree|- · 9 May 2006 at 19:58

You should have just smiled and said, "you aint got no chance mate"...

So what if he see you naked, why does he sexuality intimidate you. If he tried to sexually molest you then there would be an issue, but he didn't. I would not worry myself over it.

jhmaeng · 9 May 2006 at 20:02

Piggymon said:
I think the vast majority of homosexuals have the decency not to give a cheeky wink or raise an eyebrow when in the company of the same sex just like most straight people have the decency to behave themselves... it's just one man being a pillock and not being able to control himself. He's not representing the gay community and it shouldn't be on looked as such.

Exactly. A perv is a perv, whether he's perving on boobs and foofs, or meat and two veg - but women presumably have loads of experience of being subjected to pervs (unless you're the voluptious lady pictured in the shower) whereas it's much rarer for men to encounter the same ogling aimed at them.

That said, there's no excuse for what happened to Admiral Huddy. Should've given him a punch in the ovaries, tbh

basmic · 9 May 2006 at 20:09

Gay males and straight females both like their man meat.

When a female checks a straight male out, he's flattered. When a gay male checks a straight male out, he's stunned. Either way, both have sexual tendancies for man meat.

The problem is, you're typical straight male moans and groans when a gay male checks him out. Why? Because it's not a female.

I suppose the same male that reports a gay male for looking at him, would report an ugly female for checking him out.

I say you should be flattered a gay male actually fancies you. They could just as easily turn their nose to any other male, but instead you happened to be Mr 'Lucky'.

Smithy · 9 May 2006 at 20:14

Or he thought you looked gay...

panthro · 9 May 2006 at 20:14

basmic said:
I suppose the same male that reports a gay male for looking at him, would report an ugly female for checking him out.

I would report her for checking me out.

basmic · 9 May 2006 at 20:19

Smithy said:
Or he thought you looked gay...

If I didn't know any better, I'd have thought you were talking to Otacon.

Piggymon · 9 May 2006 at 20:28

basmic said:
Gay males and straight females both like their man meat.

When a female checks a straight male out, he's flattered. When a gay male checks a straight male out, he's stunned. Either way, both have sexual tendancies for man meat.

The problem is, you're typical straight male moans and groans when a gay male checks him out. Why? Because it's not a female.

I suppose the same male that reports a gay male for looking at him, would report an ugly female for checking him out.

I say you should be flattered a gay male actually fancies you. They could just as easily turn their nose to any other male, but instead you happened to be Mr 'Lucky'.

If I was being checked out or hit on by a lady I would probably be very flattered but generally men are a little more uncomfortable with homosexuality than women are

Society seems to accept lesbians far more readily than gays and from a women's point of view I find it quite odd but I can of course understand the attraction of lesbians and appreciate than women are more touchy feely huggy than men anyway so it probably seems less " unatural " to most people

Doesn't bother me in the slightest

Sol · 9 May 2006 at 20:38

Could've been worse; could've gave you the raised eyebrows, waved a tube of KY, slapped you on the backside and gave you the Fonz style pose!

Seriously though, how do you know he was looking at your "fruit and veg", did he look up and down? Maybe he was checking out the tiles behind you in the shower! With no direct action I wouldn't see a problem personally, wouldn't really like it either tho.

jmc777 · 9 May 2006 at 20:48

Piggymon said:
If I was being checked out or hit on by a lady I would probably be very flattered

Even if the lady checking out your pink taco was a 16st bruiser with tattoos and a pubic mohawk?

Sol · 9 May 2006 at 20:52

jmc777 said:
Even if the lady checking out your pink taco was a 16st bruiser with tattoos and a pubic mohawk?

All depends on your desperation level!

Treefrog · 9 May 2006 at 20:54

Wow! a thread with everything - sense, idiocy, humour, and trolls.

But seriously, well said Piggymon. Would people prefer for others (m or f) to find them ugly or attractive?
Just because someone finds you attractive doesn't force you to respond does it?

FFS chill out a bit folks! Is it so difficult to say "No"?

Pickers · 9 May 2006 at 20:59

Treefrog said:
But seriously, well said Piggymon. Would people prefer for others (m or f) to find them ugly or attractive?

I'm really not fussed at all what other people think

. Having said that, Pickers likes the homage from anyone m or f (I said homage - not homoage).

georges · 9 May 2006 at 21:00

nero120 said:
This actually raises a valid philosophical point:

In today's world of acceptable alternative sexual preference, does the traditional divide between male and female on issues of sexuality no longer apply? Such as seperate changing rooms, gyms, etc. If so, should this not also apply to seperate hetero men and homo men for the same reason?

What would they use for the door signs?

Garrett · 9 May 2006 at 21:01

Piggymon said:
If I was being checked out or hit on by a lady I would probably be very flattered but generally men are a little more uncomfortable with homosexuality than women are

Society seems to accept lesbians far more readily than gays and from a women's point of view I find it quite odd but I can of course understand the attraction of lesbians and appreciate than women are more touchy feely huggy than men anyway so it probably seems less " unatural " to most people

Doesn't bother me in the slightest

I agree with all that.

'Im free!'

alexakasloth · 9 May 2006 at 21:03

Piggymon said:
No way ?!!

Foof = muff and not poo !!!

Hahaha 'foof', that's a great word

Piggymon · 9 May 2006 at 21:08

jmc777 said:
Even if the lady checking out your pink taco was a 16st bruiser with tattoos and a pubic mohawk?

Flattery is flattery

I'm in a very happy relationship so advances from either the 16st tattooed Jo Brand lookalike or the trim adonis of a Brad Pitt lookalike would be rejected

Murf · 9 May 2006 at 21:14

nero120 said:
Do I have the right to walk into the female changing room and stare at their bodies?

No you don't. We have male and female changing rooms though. So you're free to catch a glance at mans bits. Only way that is going to work is through segregation which is impossible since homosexuals don't exactly carry a sign round stating their gay.

I just find it incredible people have got really bent out of shape over someone who we 'presume' was interested in a bloke but did nothing about it.

I've had gay guys hit on me and I did not vomit\kick them in the nutsack. I just politely turned them down at which point all of them have just apologised and walked away. Can't see the harm personally.