GF dilemma

Seriously though, thanks for the comments. A year or so ago when my marriage broke down I would have tapped the young one Tuesday and number 3 last night, strung them both along and then tapped the Leicester lass. Don't know why I haven't, I just can't bring myself to do that anymore. :S

Oh well, I'm just going to wing it and see what happens. This dating malarky is all new to me.
 
erm why should he get to know them super indepth etc before having sex with them? what logic is that? maybe they want to have sex with him? Hes wanting to get to know one, but hes not sure which right now, and sex can does and will happen before people know each other incredibly well above a certain age, which the OP is away.
Theres nothing immature about wanting to sleep with both, theres nothing immoral about it, the girls understand there is no commit currently and the OP should not feel guilt as he seemingly hasnt given either the impression that there is commitment.

wow. Wish there were more 'men' like you around. If they want to sleep with him and he wants to sleep with them...fair enough. However, all I am saying is that there should be some what of a relationship before sex is involved.

OK the girls have been told about stuff. Have they been told about each other though?

I'm sorry (well not really), but people who think it's OK to bed people when there is no relationship are inconsiderate idiots.

OP - I'm not saying your an idiot. I'm just saying my veiws on the people who are advising you of sleeping with both and then decide on what to do with how good they are in bed.
 
I never said bedding was out of the equation; I just don't want to jump into bed with women left right and centre.

Look at it this way.

I have been texting/calling/emailing the Leicester lass for well over a month now. We have made numerous "dates" to meet and all have fallen thorugh - her not me. Now the thing is, I really like her. We are exactly alike, we can't get a word in edgeways on the phone and we are into all the same things. Hell she even goes on all day sessions watching the footy which is something I never dreamt a lass that I'd get along with would want to do. However, she's been funny; cancelled dates, no replies to texts/emails for days and I can't help but think that I'm being messed around by her.

The local lass. I chatted her up as she has 36" legs and they were on display this one evening in 'spoons. Albeit it was a result of a 20 pence bet my mate made (he didn't think I'd have the balls to approach her - those who know what a 20 pence bet is know that it can not be lost). I also get along with her really well, she acts way more mature then 18 and she's been through a hell of a lot which I can relate to from previous experience. She originally only gave me her number as she said I was the only bloke that has approached her, made her laugh and not started to grope her after 3 nano seconds. We met again on Monday, had a great time, met again Tuesday, we'll probably bump into each other on Saturday night and I'm going round hers on Monday.

Thing is, I know potentially getting involved with an 18 year old is dangerous, but she is nice. But at the back of my mind I have a strange feeling about the Leicester lass hence this thread.

Confused? Me? Oh yes!
 
wow. Wish there were more 'men' like you around. If they want to sleep with him and he wants to sleep with them...fair enough. However, all I am saying is that there should be some what of a relationship before sex is involved.

OK the girls have been told about stuff. Have they been told about each other though?

I'm sorry (well not really), but people who think it's OK to bed people when there is no relationship are inconsiderate idiots.

OP - I'm not saying your an idiot. I'm just saying my veiws on the people who are advising you of sleeping with both and then decide on what to do with how good they are in bed.

I'm so glad this is a forum, and people have different opinions.
 
I don't see the problem here, you get on with 2 and she's local, 1 will turn out to be a pre op transsexual/hermaphrodite/wants (or has) 20 children/be dropping you for her own 1,2 and 3 dilemma.

Just remember if 2 goes wrong you may need to move house, her father will probably want to kill you for defiling his daughter and you may end up getting barred :)
 
the 18 year old falls outside of the suitable equation of:

Half your age + 7, going by your profile you should be looking at a minimum of 20

from the sounds of the OP though you sound far more interested in #1 yet are no doubt more physically attracted to #2 hence the reason your confused? just a guess though
 
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