GF problems!

Shikkaka

Shikkaka

Shikkaka

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Scenario: My gf's mates don't like me because I was ever so slightly morally wrong at the very beginning. Basically we wasn't officially together, she picked me up from the pub, gave me a mouthful in the car, I said take me back to the pub, slipped over and my tongue fell into another womans mouth. Woops! Not a good start.

Anyways, we are now officially a couple and I fully intend to stay faithful to this girl. Her friends don't believe that (fair enough) and are constantly on at her for being an idiot getting together with me (I can see their point). Anyways tomorrow night all her friends are going out but she has said she isn't because she can't afford to do so. I offer to see her tomorrow night but she won't because of what her friends might think. Basically her friends think she is pushing them to one side because she is now with me and if she sees me tomorrow night they will think she didn't wanna go out so she could see me.

Is it just me or does anyone else think this is a bit of a joke or am I just being an idiot?

Opinions please?!

Ta
 
Go out with her, buy her drinks. Gives you a chance to show you're a good boyfriend. Just giving her money means she could get drunk and her friends, not liking you, will try and be 'friends' by getting her involved with other people. It happens. Or you can trust her... lol
 
[ASSE]Hinchy;10679200 said:
Go out with her, buy her drinks. Gives you a chance to show you're a good boyfriend. Just giving her money means she could get drunk and her friends, not liking you, will try and be 'friends' by getting her involved with other people. It happens. Or you can trust her... lol
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No can do as I'm skint n all. Good suggestion though!
 
Just keep your head down and proove them wrong over time. Been in kind of a similar situation before and it just all sorted it's self out.

Don't pressure your GF but tell her that her friends are making the relationship feel uncomftable.
 
Get used to it lol, to be honest I'd just say give them time, be polite to them when you talk to them and ask them questions about themselves. I'm sure they will come round eventually. I know what I'd tell my gf, I'd say that I realize that they are your friends and their opinion means a lot to you however if you cannot afford to go out tonight then we could spend some time together. Then proceed with movie (a girly type that she will like but with either comedy/action to keep you amused) and possibly some wine and chocolates. Show her how much she means to you and be understanding. :)

Aero
 
MookJong said:
Just keep your head down and proove them wrong over time. Been in kind of a similar situation before and it just all sorted it's self out.

Don't pressure your GF but tell her that her friends are making the relationship feel uncomftable.
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I've already expressed this. I went round the other day and got nothing but dog eyes from her friends. The GF is lovely, really spot on but she listens to her stupid mates too much. Her friends do need to grow up and if she is bothered by what they say, sounds like the GF does too.
 
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Go out with her friends and pay for your gf.

Show you are a good, decent, genuine kinda guy :) (providing that you are :p)
 
[DW]Muffin;10679225 said:
Because her friends are acting like school girls? How old is she sub 20?
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She is 22. Her friends the same.

I am actually quite surprised by the responses. Thought I'd get told I'm being an idiot.
 
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