GF problems!

siloleth said:
Its your gf's choice who she chooses to be with and who she chooses to spend time with (ie.. you or the friends). They are just looking out for her though and thats what friends do.

I dont see the issue ?
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I'm not trying to force her to do either. If she told me she was going out with her mates tomorrow night, I'd say 'have a good one' and do my own thing. If she told me she doesn't wanna see me tomorrow night, again I'd be fine with that. It's the reasoning behind why she doesn't want to see me tomorrow night. Because of what her friends will think.
 
Steameh said:
I'm not trying to force her to do either. If she told me she was going out with her mates tomorrow night, I'd say 'have a good one' and do my own thing. If she told me she doesn't wanna see me tomorrow night, again I'd be fine with that. It's the reasoning behind why she doesn't want to see me tomorrow night. Because of what her friends will think.
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Hmm not good.

If your not happy with the situation maybe its best to walk away now ?
 
Steameh said:
I'm not trying to force her to do either. If she told me she was going out with her mates tomorrow night, I'd say 'have a good one' and do my own thing. If she told me she doesn't wanna see me tomorrow night, again I'd be fine with that. It's the reasoning behind why she doesn't want to see me tomorrow night. Because of what her friends will think.
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.. you're analysing it too much. Women aren't logical *tongue in cheek*

Seriously, do your thing. Let her decide what she wants todo.

If her friends poison her mind then move on.. you're young and there's plenty of time for those girls to grow up into proper women..
 
NickK said:
.. you're analysing it too much. Women aren't logical *tongue in cheek*

Seriously, do your thing. Let her decide what she wants todo.

If her friends poison her mind then move on.. you're young and there's plenty of time for those girls to grow up into proper women..
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Pretty much what I was going to say :)
 
i reckon the fact her pals are all single would have a part to play in it, they'll probably be nagging at her cause she would be disturbing the "singles" group they have going, either that or they would be just plain jealous she's got a bloke. at the end of the day its her choice, its either gonna end up she forgets about her friends for you or vice versa, doesn't sound like her pals are the kinda girls who wanna be your friend. can you not come to an agreement on nights you spend with you m8's and she spends with hers then nights you spend together...its the only way of keeping everyone happy eh?
 
BigBrisy said:
i reckon the fact her pals are all single would have a part to play in it, they'll probably be nagging at her cause she would be disturbing the "singles" group they have going, either that or they would be just plain jealous she's got a bloke. at the end of the day its her choice, its either gonna end up she forgets about her friends for you or vice versa, doesn't sound like her pals are the kinda girls who wanna be your friend. can you not come to an agreement on nights you spend with you m8's and she spends with hers then nights you spend together...its the only way of keeping everyone happy eh?
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Seems too much like a routine which I want to avoid.

Think she finally seen sense anyhow. Still not seeing her tomorrow night which is fine but she has realised her friends are indirectly dictating when I see her and when I don't.
 
Steameh said:
Basically we wasn't officially together, he picked me up from the pub, gave me a mouthful in the car
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If you're skint then why don't you stay in with her and watch a couple of films? :)

Then she won't see her mates and you'll get to see her.
 
To be fair, i can see their point. They are judging you for what you have done in the past. They are just looking out for their friend.

When you next go out with your new girl, meet up with her friends and talk to them, make friends with them. In time they will grow fond of you. You seriously don't want your misses ditching her friends for you, she will never leave you alone and it will always be on her mind.

Relationships take hard work, and you have some ahead. If you like this girl, the work is worth it. You'll be alright mate, you just need to show them your not the cheating scum bag they think you are.
 
Not sure how much this would change things but might express to her friends what you're all about:
I would go out with her and when she is away, just take the leader of the gang (there's always one, if you dont already know, go for the loudest one) aside and tell her straight up - "Look, I know at the start I was foolish and I shouldnt of done what I did but I've come to realise that [insert gf name here] really means something to me so please give me a chance and stop giving her grief about me" - becareful how you approuch and pick your moment (you don't want the mate going away thinking "what a brown noser") - That's what I would do anyway, never been in this situation myself.
 
Pay for you both to go out with her friends. Impose yourself on them. Feel their bums and blame it on other people.
 
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