I'll try and give you some decent advice here.
The phrase 'in vino veritas' exists for a reason. When drunk, people do things that they've been thinking of doing before or they say things that they've been bottling up. Drink is terrible because it means people bring things out that aren't actually issues, but just appear so at the time. It brings out niggles, small concerns, but writes them large. That is to say, it makes people act as if things are very important and sometimes massively problematic when they aren't.
My gf is guilty of this too. She has said things when drunk which she regrets the next day and has bought me presents to apologise. This doesn't always make it right though.
Different people act differently when drunk. In my experience, seeing as girls are moody creatures, they are more likely the create problems after drinking than the bloke is. How you deal with this is up to you. If your gf doesn't drink a lot anyway, I'd say she should give it up since it obviously doesn't mean that much to her and it's dangerous. I've been out with a tee-total girl and it was great, no problems at all. She didn't mind me drinking but she knew how to have fun too and was faithful.
I'm slightly concerned about this "I'm going to feel another man's weiner" thing. When my gf gets drunk she sometimes has a go at me about things [few of which I can remember] but I've never had a worry about her doing something with anyone. And I've seen her drunk a lot of times. I think that the two of you need to talk about this and what you do from hereon in. To me it sounds like she needs to give up the drink, a lot of people do because they don't like the person it turns them into. If you mean that much to her she'll do it. You don't want to be worried about a repeat incident.
The other thing I'd watch for is her friends. Are they decent, are they likely to egg her on in the future and get her drinking when she doesn't want to or are they trustworthy? People take drinking for granted but its so destructive. I think she should give it up totally and ask her friends to respect her decision. It sounds like a really crap night which you can learn from and you're lucky it didn't go even worse.
If she doesn't want to give it up I would reconsider the relationship. It sounds like she will though.
The phrase 'in vino veritas' exists for a reason. When drunk, people do things that they've been thinking of doing before or they say things that they've been bottling up. Drink is terrible because it means people bring things out that aren't actually issues, but just appear so at the time. It brings out niggles, small concerns, but writes them large. That is to say, it makes people act as if things are very important and sometimes massively problematic when they aren't.
My gf is guilty of this too. She has said things when drunk which she regrets the next day and has bought me presents to apologise. This doesn't always make it right though.
Different people act differently when drunk. In my experience, seeing as girls are moody creatures, they are more likely the create problems after drinking than the bloke is. How you deal with this is up to you. If your gf doesn't drink a lot anyway, I'd say she should give it up since it obviously doesn't mean that much to her and it's dangerous. I've been out with a tee-total girl and it was great, no problems at all. She didn't mind me drinking but she knew how to have fun too and was faithful.
I'm slightly concerned about this "I'm going to feel another man's weiner" thing. When my gf gets drunk she sometimes has a go at me about things [few of which I can remember] but I've never had a worry about her doing something with anyone. And I've seen her drunk a lot of times. I think that the two of you need to talk about this and what you do from hereon in. To me it sounds like she needs to give up the drink, a lot of people do because they don't like the person it turns them into. If you mean that much to her she'll do it. You don't want to be worried about a repeat incident.
The other thing I'd watch for is her friends. Are they decent, are they likely to egg her on in the future and get her drinking when she doesn't want to or are they trustworthy? People take drinking for granted but its so destructive. I think she should give it up totally and ask her friends to respect her decision. It sounds like a really crap night which you can learn from and you're lucky it didn't go even worse.
If she doesn't want to give it up I would reconsider the relationship. It sounds like she will though.
