Girlfriend...

I've been very close to saying things like that about my GF's parents, but always manage to bite my tongue.

I'm sure she will calm down sooner or later :)
 
I know it's mothers day an' all... but I did try to be tactful this evening, I said to her basically " I don't like it when your mother tells me where to park, it's my car and I'll park it where I like, I don't need her telling me." And also I think the other thing I said was "just because she doesn't think it's a good idea to stay inside and watch the rugby when it's sunny... I'll ****ing do what I want to, it's none of her business..." actually, now you mention it, those weren't really tactful sentences... reckon I should give her a call?
 
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Obligitory "bonk her mam" post :D
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How long have you been seeing each other for?
 
You don't reckon she'll have made a decision to just get rid of me by tomorrow do you? or you think that actually giving her tonight is the best thing? I did send her a message on facebook but I'm doubtful that I'll hear back from it. I just don't want her thinking I'm a complete ****er just because of this relatively minor ( in my eyes ) fall out.

How long have you been seeing each other for?
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4 months, see each other every day as well, for at least 5 or 6 hours each day :(
 
Maybe get to know her folks more before slating them infront of the g/f?

Four months is not a long time to get to know her folks in my opinion.

Offer to go out for a meal with her and her folks. Chicks love it when you show interests in their families.

OBVIOUSLY - This all depends how much you like her I guess.

The question is, do you think she told them what you said :eek:

If she did then a meal and some *** kissing is definitely on the cards if you value your relationship with this young lady.

How old are you if you dont mind me asking.. definitely sounds like a "Schoolboy" error ;)
 
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Well to be fair you don't need to have to put up with belittling comments from someone for very long to find out what kind of person they are... Her mother said I was being " not very nice" just because I didn't want to have food with their family from the chip shop... how pathetic is that for example? Telling me where I can and can't park on the public road outside the property not blocking the drive... Telling me where I should and shouldn't be taking her daughter... And one of my pet hates is people who boast. Now my dad is in a £50,000 + a year job, he lives in a house that was valued at £700,000 and do I ever brag about it? No. Whereas her mothers only nice thing she has is a mercedes-benz and she feels the ******* need to constantly remind everyone how she has a mercedes and that it's better than X, Y and Z cars. Really drives me mad.
 
In a situation like this I think you need to remember that you're in this relationship for the girl not her mother. You can complain to your girlfriend about her mum but really, nothing is going to come of it. If the comments were aimed at you and were detrimental to your relationship then perhaps you would have something to complain about. What do you reaaaaaaallly have to complain about other than that she's annoying.. In this case it's the mothers nature to boast and be a fusspot (images of mrs bucket coming up)...you will not park there..oh how dare you not eat this greasy fish and chips! She's not going to change so if you love the girl..just deal with it. I appreciate that you may find her annoying at times but if you're in their house there's not a great deal you can do except respect her. Yes, your girlfriend seems a bit OTT with the crying and running to mummy and daddy (age?) but women can get oversensitive sometimes... perhaps just tell her that her mum isnt that bad, you just fancied some time alone to cuddle her uninterrupted.
 
Get rid of the G/F then, if it IS as bad as you say and your not over dramatising any of it then I would get out NOW.

It will ALLWAYS be the "elephant" in the room (Excuse the pun) during your relationship. Is the g/f ever likely to say one day "Yeah, your right, she is a stupid cow"?

How old are you if you dont mind me asking?
 
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