girls and ladies what do you really mean when you say "maybe"?
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Killerkebab said:I thought it was "that would have been a yes if you were less pathetic". My experience has taught me that.
Little did she know she wasn't much better.
A little more experience would turn maybe into yes
Or a no, so then you know she's not worth it, next!
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Do they not use it the same way guys do?
I use maybe as "I really don't want to, but saying no will make you strop, and I'd rather have a few days of peace and have you be annoyed when I say 'no' just before the thing u asked about initally". If that makes sense ^_^
I use maybe as "I really don't want to, but saying no will make you strop, and I'd rather have a few days of peace and have you be annoyed when I say 'no' just before the thing u asked about initally". If that makes sense ^_^
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Thats what he said.tbs said:but let that be your "experience"
Don't worry about it KK, at this age relationships are pretty meaningless tbh.
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I'd make up some excuse. Never a straight no, what can I say I'm a nice guy!
Women don't really rely that much on verbal communication,
e.g:
Yes = Normally means No. But sometimes means Yes or Maybe.
No = Normally means Yes. Or sometimes means No or Maybe.
Maybe = Normally means No. Or sometimes means Yes or Maybe.
It depends on their context - judge each situation on its merits and go with your gut feeling. And you'll have a 33% chance of being right.
e.g:
Yes = Normally means No. But sometimes means Yes or Maybe.
No = Normally means Yes. Or sometimes means No or Maybe.
Maybe = Normally means No. Or sometimes means Yes or Maybe.
It depends on their context - judge each situation on its merits and go with your gut feeling. And you'll have a 33% chance of being right.
On a more positive note,
I have heard that "maybe" means "you have my attention, but try a tad harder..."
Disclaimer: Please be aware that this is by no means factually correct, it simply goes on person experiance. Advice to be taken at own risk.
I have heard that "maybe" means "you have my attention, but try a tad harder..."
Disclaimer: Please be aware that this is by no means factually correct, it simply goes on person experiance. Advice to be taken at own risk.
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That sounds about right tbh.woodsy2k said:
Well, I don't know what it's like for a long term relationship or wife, but certainly over the past few days I've realised that if they say "maybe" I can almost always get it into a "Yes" by giving them LESS attention. E.g. Just saying "OK Fine" in a completely calm voice with a straight face and actually TURNING AWAY. Try it and seewoodsy2k said:
. I love David DeAngelo <3 .St0rmer66 said:Well, I don't know what it's like for a long term relationship or wife, but certainly over the past few days I've realised that if they say "maybe" I can almost always get it into a "Yes" by giving them LESS attention. E.g. Just saying "OK Fine" in a completely calm voice with a straight face and actually TURNING AWAY. Try it and see
thats what ive been the whole time.
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Phnom_Penh said:
Meaningless or not, everyone else has one it seems, and I don't like being a part of those without something
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tbs said:i just say "no" or "yes" in my books, thats what i do.
guys dont say "maybe"
seriously? U all must have much more even tempered gf's then lol