Going on a date tonight for a the first time in a while - Very Nervous..!!

rossyl said:
Well done mate, and good luck with the next date.

i once took this posh girl out. I paid for everything. i did stay round her house twice, but in the end it really wasn't worth it.

I almost asked for a refund.

Next girl i went out with I treated quite differently, and it went a lot better. Tho she wasn't as hot.

Same for me actually. The hot posh girl expects stuff to be paid for but puts out easily......the not so hot more my level of girl pays her way but wont put out for a while.....i kinda prefered the not so hot one as it is like less maintenance and hassle.

Good luck on the next date mate! Just dont do what my mate did and tell the girl he was on the date with that he hadnt had a girlfriend for 3 years :eek:

I felt bad that she told me that and then tried it on with me. I was like nah uh dude.....your hair look!(didnt like her at all)
 
!bluetonic! said:
Hey well done mi amigo.

Of course she wants to do it again, you paid for everything. :mad:
This is an equal society we live in. It's give and take.

But I'm glad it went well for you.

Just remember, it's like shopping for Chocolate Digestives. You've had your first digestive, it's good, you paid a reasonable price. You enjoyed. But maybe there's another chocolate digestive out there that's a bit cheaper, but just as tasty. Maybe you could be eating chocolate digestives from two different brands at once. Maybe you can pay a little for a better quality digestive. Maybe you're happy with the same digestive. I think you all know what I'm saying. ;)

You sound like a ****.

Keep us updated ivtechman!
 
I always find when meeting new people that having a friend with you makes it less akward as the friends wont give a toss and will get conversation rolling then you wont get massive akward silences!
 
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We've txt'd a few txt's today, not gone overboard, and we've agreed to another date next Friday night - we both work during the week, so for now just Fridays, gives us the weekend to then, well you know..!! It might happen it might not. But for now, its looking like its going well...

I did think about paying for the lot, and if that was looking a bit too eager or even dated..!!?? Next time, I'm sure she'll be more then happy to pay for a few drinks etc... We've not planned a night yet, but I always think making too many plans just means if it goes wrong, it ruins the night so dunno yet..

But yes, it appears to have gone well. Phew, lets see how it progresses...
 
listen!

not email her back and say something like;

"you're absolutly stunning i only had one thing on my mind while looking at you but i kept it to myself, i kinda felt nervous being around you and had to kind of hide my mid-regions with my hand while walking around, hope that doesnt creep you out."
 
didn't you shag her? Your not a real male species lol shame on you!

Well done though for it going on.

PS we all want pics :D
 
I'm staying away, as someone who has never had a serious relationship, nothing can I bring to this thread but pain and suffering...

Might have to try that alpha thing sometime though...
 
Hmm..

Funny this should pop back up again.. Actually, the first few dates went well. I guess she was intrigued and I was as well.. We got to three dates but I think the fizzle has gone.

I posted a thread last night about the mind games I'm getting.... I'm too busy, working a lot etc from her.... Chemistry perhaps wasn't there, or she thinks I'm about to go on the chase and play the mind games???

Me, I think its a way to keep me on the books in case she gets bored one evening and I'm a quick easy date.... So, I don't think this is going to be the one everyone... :(

Still, plenty more I guess.... Just hate woman who play the 'I'm too busy' routine... But then don't we all..??
 
Expalin to her your nervous - tbh I should imagine most people who use online dating are the same way. She probably feels the same!


EDIT - NM - appears said first date already occured

*reads rest of thread*
 
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