The problem is the way VAR is being used. The VAR isn't being asked to check if the correct decision is being made but whether you can understand why the ref made the decision, which is barking mad.
Pretty much the whole of the VAR implementation seems to be wrong which begs the question why bother with it? when it was brought in people thought it would be the end of blatantly wrong decisions and that's not been the case so why is it here? the VAR team are so rigid in following clearly flawed rules and unable to use any common sense that it's creating bat **** crazy outcomes.