Having a Vasectomy

once the initial injection in the nuts pain fades you wont feel anything. mine took about 45 mins, i didnt even need the pain killers after.

Tell her you'll be able to plow the fields and not worry about your seeds germinating in the wrong pastures. she might change her mind about you having it done.
 
The process itself is unlikely to be a big deal.

One person trying to get another person sterilised is a big deal. How would she react to you moaning for her to be sterilised? The relative difficulty of the procedure doesn't matter in this context - it's about one person pressurising another to be sterilised, not about how the sterilisation is done.

It is sterilisation because a reversal might or might not work even if you can have it done and it's done perfectly. It's not an on/off/on thing. There isn't even clear evidence regarding the success rate - estimates vary from 25% to 85%, depending on time since vasectomy, type of vasectomy and what is actually being measured (e.g. counting how many men have sperm present at all regardless of how well they work will get a very different result to counting how many men are (or are assumed to be) the biological father of a child).
 
yep I like the fun answers, not so much the bad answers.. can I have my fellas removed???? I guess I came here for some chat on the pros and cons from folks who had this done already. I'll wait for the sense
 
doofski said:
once the initial injection in the nuts pain fades you wont feel anything. mine took about 45 mins, i didnt even need the pain killers after.

Tell her you'll be able to plow the fields and not worry about your seeds germinating in the wrong pastures. she might change her mind about you having it done.
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That was what i tried to say..
 
The obvious answer is to have a sex change and become a woman. All the rage nowadays and once you've gone the whole nine yards you're guaranteed to not be fathering any children. Job done!

More seriously:

If you wanted "some chat on the pros and cons from folks who had this done already", you would have been better off asking for that rather than asking for something completely different. You're not likely to get the answers you want when you're asking a completely different question.
 
Crossing my legs whilst reading this thread, I'm in the same boat. My 2nd child is due any day now, and my Mrs keeps pushing me for this
 
I've heard it can lead to mental health problems, with the man feeling like they're less whole and no longer a 'proper man'. It can also manifest in permanent ball ache in some cases. But then if you have kids and a Mrs you probably won't notice that.

I'm considering it myself and I'm sure the above are just scare stories, but I'll have to be very very sure before I permanently fertilise myself. What if my wife wants another kid when we're 40 and I can't give it to her?
 
Her getting her tubes tied is barely any more involved than a vasectomy these days.

And she'll get the kids (probably) and be too old for more anyway if you split up.
 
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I've heard it can lead to mental health problems, with the man feeling like they're less whole and no longer a 'proper man'. It can also manifest in permanent ball ache in some cases. But then if you have kids and a Mrs you probably won't notice that.

I'm considering it myself and I'm sure the above are just scare stories, but I'll have to be very very sure before I permanently fertilise myself. What if my wife wants another kid when we're 40 and I can't give it to her?
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I looked into it funnily enough when the wife said it was time to get it done :p the nhs information said there was a chance of permanent ball ache from which they don't know why or how but it's a chance.

So that'll be a no then.
 
What specifically is your Mrs moaning about? You keep having kids or something?

I had a vasectomy last August. I'm nearly 40 and have 2 children and don't want any more. The tube cutting was uncomfortable but not painful. In and out in a morning. No after effects, no loss in sex drive, no feelings of emasculation.

Has helped my GF too now she is off the pill. Although periods are heavier, her sex drive is noticeably higher and her "finishing move" is far more frequent.
 
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