Help with a girl...
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Take note people with this attitude generally end up in a bad way. If said person is in a relationship and you know about this yet still go in for the kill expect a ****ing good kicking and rightly so. Marriage has Sweet FA to do with it, love is love regardless of a wedding band and wedding certificate!
Love clearly isn't love, or is one sided, if the girl chooses to ditch her boyfriend in favour of someone else. Women aren't possessions so the idea that someone deserves a kicking is frankly ridiculous... it also makes the assumption that the ex-boyfriend both gets into contact with the new one and is capable of giving him a kicking int the first place... In the real word... outside the school playground, chavvy nightclubs and your own imagination this just isn't likely to happen... unless the ex is rather sure of himself in a fight and/or potentially fancies getting in trouble with the police. A girl turning to her boyfriend and saying 'this isn't working out, I've met someone else' ought to be an indication to move on with your life not a red flag to go and get yourself a potential criminal conviction over a girl who clearly didn't care about you enough in the first place... that's just retard logic.
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Take note people with this attitude generally end up in a bad way. If said person is in a relationship and you know about this yet still go in for the kill expect a ****ing good kicking and rightly so. Marriage has Sweet FA to do with it, love is love regardless of a wedding band and wedding certificate!
I wish this was true but it just isnt... People split up and get together all the time... Sometimes Love just runs out :/
People are unpredictable You could be trying to tap someone's boyfriend/girlfriend who is incredibly unhinged. I'm a perfect example my best friend of ten years tried his luck with my girlfriend and the only reason I'm not banged up for life is because he out ran me. I had every intention of beating his skull in with a baseball bat with floor spikes in, every swing missed his head by inches. the **** played rugby so after 45 minutes of chasing him I gave up as he was much faster than me. He has since disappeared off the face of the earth which is a shame as I would love to have some private time with him.
Well that's more an indication that you've got some personal anger management issues you might need resolving than a typical example of what actually happens normally. Also that was a mate of yours betraying you personally so rather different than your girlfriend finding someone else who doesn't know you.
Few points - if a girl was into someone quite big/muscular then the next boyfriend might well be the same - you won't know this until you meet them... Girls aren't stupid - they're hardly going to write down the name and address for you to go find the new boyfriend. If you actually did chase down a random person you no nothing about with a baseball bat (rather than your mate) as a result of a failed relationship then there are some unknown and rather serious physical and legal consequences for you... To put it mildly its not a very good idea and the girl is hardly worth it any more - she didn't belong to you and she favoured another person over you, she wasn't your possession. The reality is this supposed violent consequence to a girl choosing a new boyfriend doesn't actually tend to happen - people get dumped, people move on...
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... or the humour
magnolia's doesn't even have that either. just the same regurgitated nonsense
Completely agree with you unless the person she is playing away with fully acknowledges she has a boyfriend in which case its pick axe handle time baby.
While I also think that sleeping with a girl you know has a commitment is a fairly nasty thing to do, you seem to be focusing your rage on the wrong person. It doesn't matter whether or not the guy knows about you, he has no commitment to you and the real issue with cheating is you're breaking a commitment.
You're more likely replacing your desire to hurt her, that your love or morals won't let you follow through on, with a desire to hurt him. In reality, this doesn't help and you need to register what the real problem is.
Personally if a girlfriend cheated on me, she'd be dead to me. End of the story, don't want to know anymore about it. But if it makes you feel like a man again, you get on with the hitting.
P.S. I get it, you're a big awesome IRL keyboard warrior who beats up on normal guys. In reality, if you actually followed through with that attitude you'd probably end up in a bad way, as nobody fights fair against the big guy. After reading more of your posts, I'd say you're more of a sad case than a hard case. Grow up dude.
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Really? I used to have the nickname 'homewrecker' in college and university and I never once had angry ex-boyfriends chasing me. In fact, they wouldn't have even said a word to me, let alone demonstrate any unchecked aggression. And I was a right weedy sod.
Not to bring this down to an overly personal level, as I have noting against you, but your post reads as a proclamation that you're "unhinged" and the story along with your earlier posts suggests you're far too emotionally involved to provide a rational standpoint based upon experience. People don't normally seriously intend to cause potentially lethal harm to others because they tied it on with their girlfriend.
You say that, but I honestly believe, with good reason, that he's a terribly decent human being. The Internet is a playground, after all.
I only have issues when someone tries to **** with me and that will never change.
He tried his luck with my girlfriend not the other way around he told me this after I cornered him I made absolutely sure I knew the whole story from both sides before I went bat **** crazy and to be honest his face said it all!
I don't know why you keep throwing possession around :/ my girlfriend can leave whenever she wants too, hell I'll even drop her off at a chosen destination if she wishes. Its not rocket science when you're in a relationship you stay faithful to one another, if you have feelings for someone else then you split up simples. I couldn't give a monkeys five fingered shuffle if it was a stranger that tried it on with my girlfriend or a mate, if either of them knew she was with me at the time they made a move on her they're going to get ****ed up.
magnolia's doesn't even have that either. just the same regurgitated nonsense
The most truthful post in this thread
You're very lucky then, eventually though you might not be such a lucky boy and **** with the wrong persons relationship.
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