How would you feel?

[Ripper]

Nope i'm cool with it now. I just always think of the worst possible scenario's and let them sit in my mind, its quite annoying.

Thinking of it as a test now, if all goes well we'll be stronger for it

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

turning this situation on its head a bit....

what if one of the guys going with her is an ex-bf? Still feel the same? let her go np?

in fact what if guy 1 is a notorious flirtatious womaniser and guy 2 is an ex-bf who she is still friends with?

Still cool with her going? (yeah i was in this very situation lol)

Yes.

If you don't have the trust then you don't have the relationship. If something then happens to dent that trust then you get knocked on your ass for while, sort your life out, move on and find someone, eventually, who can give you that unconditional trust.

Many of us on these forums have been through **** and it always comes down to a few pertinent points; trust being one of them.

 

[Helium_Junkie]

she'll be going. We had a bit of a row. I'm now refusing to see her.

i don't think i'm being possessive at all, I'm not like that.

You are. If you trust her then chillax and let her have a holiday.

 

[Mike UK]

Let her go,
if you cant trust her the whole relationship you got is worthless.