CheekyKid - surely you had to "pay" her to get her into private chat and then manage to swoon her somehow (though your original post said you didn't spend a dime?) - just seems a bit odd that her conception of any "client" on that site can change after a chat? I mean lets be honest, you went there for one thing like any guy, and that's your motivation for wanting to get her here too (don't blame you).
I find it waste of money to patronize MFC so I never do it. I have never taken her private nor would I ever do that. If she likes me she won't be interested in it either. As for girls asking you to "help them" with a private I don't accept that either. I would only do it if lets say my real gf was working there and I decided to do her a surprise or something of that context.
I used to go on MFC because of the amazing hot girls that you see here and also boredom played a huge part too at the time as I was without a job and single plus I had heavy loses in the stockmarket when I bought Lloyds at 58p and it went down to 46p.
Granted like more normal men who would visit MFC I have shaken the snake from sunrise to sunset on more than one occassion but thats hardly an argument against me, I should think. They are just too hot and bachelors some times simply can't help it. If you don't believe me check them out!
As for my babe I just gotten to know her from visiting her room often. I had noticed that shes not the "usual" cam whore that makes you feel "lets mate" so chat after a chat we got closer and with her i had different sort of feelings.
Oh sure....she packs a good pair and a nice curve so certainly body wise shes up to par.
The whold thing didn't happen in one day. More like 3 months. Granted i had reservations and I guess I still do as I know very well that online attraction doesn't always translate into the real world.
I am not particurarly proud of her job nor is she and nor would we reveal it to people close to me/us because most are narrow minded jerks whose judgement on the girls that do this sort of job is ridiculous and hence i can't take it on board and consider it. I do have reservations for people who decide to do this sort of job and trust me I have taken her for a ride through some questioning that I deemed important. I believe she has passed the driving test.
I'll reiterate that I won't pay anything for her other than a meal and this sort of basic stuff. The first meeting will be crucial and i want to establish 100% that she ain't after my wallet or my passport.
I too met a Romanian online, I have visited her 3 times in Romania now. She plans to emmigrate in the summer.. Beautiful people, beautiful country (not what I invisaged, was a wake up call for me not to judge a country or a people until you visit!).
On the flip side, there are a lot of scams and Romanians especially are very clever people. There is a lot of it going on but I was the lucky one with my relationship. Its real and beautful, best decision I ever made.
ps... Always make sure you at least cam first before you even consider meeting. You can learn an awful lot about someone from camming and it rules out some aspects of scams. If she wont go on cam for you then be very suspicious.
Matt
Well Matt...with respect but the capital is pants. Worse city i've been too in terms of general sightseeing. People were cool though and not as friendly as londoners. I like to see the city in its entirety not only the best "chosen" parts by guide books. I can't comment on the country side as I haven't been to.