Im a little bit shallow

Hedge

Hedge

Hedge

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Alright chaps.

After being single for a long time now, and after having brief flings with the occasional female, and not giving them a chance for anything more, ive concluded that Im being a bit too shallow.

Ive had brief flings with one or two girls whove been funny, had same interests, great sense of humour etc... yet they were average looking.

The thing is, Im only average looking myself but I cant seem to handle the idea of having a relationship with someone whos just a bit "meh" on the eye.

Am I wrong to want a honey, or is it time I just accepted pretty girls are for pretty boys.

Im 26 now and Im all alone! lol
 
just relax mate, your 26, no big deal... don't go looking for it, and you'll find that something will happen.

I was single for about 5 years after a pretty nasty relationship ended, but that was through choice. Once I felt ready to move forward I didn't go looking, things just seemed to happen. We've been married now for 7 year and have 3 wonderful kids.
 
At the same time I do think im yearning for someone, but in my dreamy head I want one that makes other blokes go "woaah whats the Hot girl doing with that chump!"

Ive had a few larger girls show keen interest in me, and they are a great laugh to be with etc, but I cant imagine myself with one. Im a git when I think about it. I would never say anything nasty to larger ladies but I couldnt see myself in a relationship with one.

Terrible really how Im letting looks dominate the person beneath :(
 
26 - just go around putting your penis in various pies. Do what I do, and do a few fat birds every now and then - puts your life in perspective.
 
Hedge said:
At the same time I do think im yearning for someone, but in my dreamy head I want one that makes other blokes go "woaah whats the Hot girl doing with that chump!"
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Forget what i said earlier, i guess you simply must not have found the right person and fallen in love. If you had, the above would not matter.
 
Go out and nail a couple of grossly overweight girls (you know, the ones who sweat when they walk), then go back and tap a few of your "regular" type. You may view them differently ;)
 
Call me shallow, couldn't care less, but there's no way I could stuff one up some heifer I didn't find at least a bit physically attractive.
Fat is not a turn on!
 
When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend.

When I was 16, I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 30, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground, so I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.


I am older and wiser now, and am looking for a girl with big ****.
 
tbh I don't think it's that you wont settle for a 'meh' looking woman, it's just that you find yourself far more attracted to beautiful women. However, when you find someone who makes you really excited they could fall into either category. A lot of people mix up people of the opposite sex who they're extremely attracted to physically with people of the opposite sex who give them butterflies. You want someone who gives you butterflies, even if they are 'average' looking, you'll be far more attracted to them than a random glamour model who has nice boobs who you think you prefer at the moment.
 
Someone could look incredibly dull, plain or boring to the world but to you they look incredible! You just haven't found that spark yet so don't stress!
 
Hedge, stop thinking about what others will think as tbh no one cares what their mates women look like after the first few meetings.

Learn to want things for yourself, it's you who will be with her not your mates.
 
is it really because your more concerned about what others might think? who cares if they are a bit "meh" anyway they can still have hot bodies and most women look more than a bit "meh" if they know how to use makeup , some women who look really pretty look like trolls without makeup
 
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