Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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knip said:
Yes once in a while, but from my experience "nice" men do this time and time again, why cant they just go "Oi woman, we're doing THIS this evening, and if you dont like it tough!" (obviously im being humourous with my my wording, but you get the idea) Plus if hes not really bothered, that also says in a way that he doesnt care enough, to have an opinion which can make the girl think he then "isnt bothered" about her.

Its like that type of man is too scared to assert their opinion and risk upsetting said woman, when in fact what women want is someone who will tell it like it is, and make decisions about stuff. It shows you have a backbone, and arent a walkover.
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Question when I was out shopping. After we'd spent about 2h I said fancy something to eat. Then we walked along the street she said how about here and I said "I don't mind" :eek:. The reason is I would be happy eating anywhere with her is that wrong? Then I said lets see inside it was packed so we went on (Attempted save).
 
If it was the first time you had met then fair enough, being polite at the beginning is fine (and good) when you're still getting to know eachother, BUT what im trying to say is you dont need to do it all the time. Come up with a plan and say "I thought we could do this and this tonight"

Women like decisive men, not men who arent prepared to have opinions/make plans, and stick to them. Its fine once in a while to say "what would you like to do this evening" but there are men out there (believe me ive been out with them) who will just carry on doing that time and time again, for whatever reason, and it gets frigging boring.

It is ok to have opinions and voice them, women dont want to be put up on a pedestal and worshipped.

But then I am still single, so what would I know.....:D
 
Cool cheers for the reply ;), That's the second time I've been out with her. It wouldn't really call it a date though, more of just a shopping trip. It was really cool though I got some great stuff! She's an attractive lady and intelligent it's great fun hanging out with her though :D.
 
So now you do the decisive bit, and ring her up and ask her if she fancies doing something you have thought of........ "Hiya, wondered if you wanted to go see *insert film* at the cinema, and then maybe go somewhere to eat"
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knip said:
So now you do the decisive bit, and ring her up and ask her if she fancies doing something you have thought of........ "Hiya, wondered if you wanted to go see *insert film* at the cinema, and then maybe go somewhere to eat"
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You reckon? I'm in Vienna one more month so it's not gonna last long. I'm not gonna live in Austria after I finish uni and she defo won't live in England. I actually just sent her this before seeing your message:
Hey ****,

Just wanted to say thanks again for this evening was great. If there's anything I can do for you before I go let me know. Gardening, computers, moving stuff whatever.

Anyway have a great weekend,
 
Crikey so many posts since I last read the thread!

Some of these girls you have been meeting are making us ladies look bad!

unkn0wn- My guess is the "bunny boiler" lady was possibly feeling vulnerable after sleeping with you and probably thinking you were after one thing.
Like I said just a guess though!

i agree with others about not wasting too long on msn/emails etc. I think that was the problem with my ex and I. We had chatted via email for about a month before we met ( his call not mine as he felt it was too soon!) and on paper we seemed a good match but in person we just weren't.

Looking back now I think he was trying to force it to make it work. I never felt 100% comfortable in being myself around him and that was wrong. I've learnt my lesson now and if someone cant accept me how I am that's not my fault.

It seems there are a lot of people out there who don't know what they want. They moan they are single but when they have someone show an interest they change their mind.

its very frustrating! I just want to find a guy who knows what he wants in life and isn't afraid to get it!

Actually I put that on my profile (worded slightly differently of course) and got an email today saying the below:

Hi
I'm not afraid to go after what I want which is why I've treated your age limit like the speed limit on an Italian motorway.
xx

What am i meant to say back to that? lol He's 50 btw.
 
secretspy said:
Hi
I'm not afraid to go after what I want which is why I've treated your age limit like the speed limit on an Italian motorway.
xx

What am i meant to say back to that? lol He's 50 btw.
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Tell him you wouldn't mind him treating you like that if he was a Ferrari, but Robin Reliants don't cut it :p
 
Well, I'm still with my gf I met of POF, she's preggers and I'll prob move in with her soon. Hurrah for POF.

After some of my other posts in here, I've done pretty well I think!
 
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