Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Vincent, you've not wrecked anything, but by asking her to take things more seriously she knows that basically implies sex, even though you didn't intend it as such, that's what it means and you both know it.

Hard to say if it's put her off but clearly she's reacted a bit coldly to the proposition. Has she simply not replied to texts or calls? In which case it's almost certainly over.

Or have both you and her not instigated any contact since that evening?

If so you could possibly salvage something from this.

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bAz^uk said:
I think its just case of cold feet, not been 100% about it. If she doesn't want any more she won't contact you, simple as that. Sometimes you have to be honest and realise this.
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so i just leave it and let her contact me if/when she wants to then...

Wolfe777 said:
Vincent, you've not wrecked anything, but by asking her to take things more seriously she knows that basically implies sex, even though you didn't intend it as such, that's what it means and you both know it.
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I wont go in to details but it doesn't/didn't, to either of us.

Wolfe777 said:
Hard to say if it's put her off but clearly she's reacted a bit coldly to the proposition. Has she simply not replied to texts or calls? In which case it's almost certainly over.
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just simply no response.
 
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Chin up Vince, you'll probably get a text in a day or two along the lines of

"Sorry but didn't feel we clicked like before"

Or

"Sorry been so busy just don't think this will work out"

Or you might get the dreaded silence.

Either way it's not your fault, could be someone else, could be she's just being cold. Pick yourself up and realise it's her loss and not yours.


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Anyone mind having a glance over what i have on mine? I think its ok but welcome any suggestions !

So I’ve been single for about a year now, and as I don’t get to meet many girls in my line of work, probably because it keeps me so busy! So a few of my friends suggested online dating, and here I am. I’m looking for someone to date initially, and see where it goes really :)

I’m a totally honest and fun loving guy, have also been told I’m romantic by many of my female friends. I love a bit of adventure and the outdoors is a big factor in my life. I’m always out running, or on the bike, exercise is a big part of my life, as is my photography which I plan on focussing on as a new career this year.

I enjoy great nights out with friends, be it the pub, cinema, or a weekend away somewhere. I’m just as happy to have an evening in, depending on the company of course.

What I’m looking for is someone who’s similar to me, loves the outdoors, and will be just as open and honest with me as I am with you.

If you want to know more, get in touch :)

Rob.
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I think you need to wait for her to reply, she could be busy or just thinking things over. If she likes you she will either tell you to back off or put you straight.
 
Had a date last night, Nice girl, pretty, witty, intelligent etc.

I had quite a laugh, I doubt anything will come of it but shes texted me today.
Got a few on the go really at the minute rather than put all the eggs in one basket :)

Its pretty crazy really. This can be very expensive. The site is mad.. its possible to get a date every single day. I am still yet to actually message someone first. Im just seeing who messages me and then going from there. Ill message people properly when I get back to scotland and on my own PC :)
 
Hedge said:
Its pretty crazy really. This can be very expensive. The site is mad.. its possible to get a date every single day. I am still yet to actually message someone first. Im just seeing who messages me and then going from there. Ill message people properly when I get back to scotland and on my own PC :)
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Everyday... whattt? Mines pretty quiet. Am I doing something wrong?

Could you link your profile so I can see how it reads etc?

Here's a link to mine, I thought it was ok haha... Link
 
Psy-Blade said:
Everyday... whattt? Mines pretty quiet. Am I doing something wrong?

Could you link your profile so I can see how it reads etc?

Here's a link to mine, I thought it was ok haha... Link
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:D

As for your question, it's very dependent on your location and general humpability.
 
I had my first meeting with a lady from POF today, wasn't as hard as I expected it to be and we got on like a house on fire, conversation never seemed to stop, which was good :)

Hoping to meet her again soon although she said she had a concern as she has two kids and ideally wants anoter day time meet because she wasn't sure how it would fit round my working hours Monday - Friday 9 - 5. Told her that's not a big issue, got lots of holiday left.
 
had a first date last night. went ok, talked for a couple of hours. we were just in a coffee shop sitting opposite each other at a table which was a bit 'interviewish'
anyway, not sure what she thinks of me as in chemistry or attracted
likewise i'm sure if we're a match, it's really going to take another date i think.
i didn't try and kiss her or anything last night, but at the end she stuck her hand out to me lol wasn't expecting a hand shake


would you text/msg for a week then phone and ask again? and try stick the lips on at the end of a second date?
 
I just got back from a date Cruiser, I took the hand she offered when we first met and went straight for the cheek, then again when we parted ways at the end of the night.

She was a nice girl, quite pretty and we chatted for a couple of hours without any awkward moments, she's since text to say she didn't think there was any chemistry which I'm inclined to agree with.

Thing is, I'm curious as to how differently I'd have acted if there was some chemistry! I'm still new to this whole dating lark so I guess I'll know when it happens...
 
Behemoth said:
I had my first meeting with a lady from POF today, wasn't as hard as I expected it to be and we got on like a house on fire, conversation never seemed to stop, which was good :)

Hoping to meet her again soon although she said she had a concern as she has two kids and ideally wants anoter day time meet because she wasn't sure how it would fit round my working hours Monday - Friday 9 - 5. Told her that's not a big issue, got lots of holiday left.
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she was talking about kids on the first date?

ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun!
 
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