I had a date with a girl from POF on Friday, we'd been chatting all week, she's awesome, she's Scottish, and we got on REALLY well. Been chatting to her still since then and planning to meet again soon. She lives in East London though, which is a bit of a trek for me, and vice versa, but hey ho!
Last night I had a date with another Scottish girl (not met online but figured I'd mention it). Technically the 2nd date, but 4th time I've seen her (twice we met out with others). Had a table booked somewhere for 8.30, cancelled that at 8.15, drank until about 10.30, then came back to mine, stayed in bed until 3pm today. Giggity! I really like her, but she is 5 years older than me, she's 31, and I'm just not sure we're in the same place.
I got another post-date text "You're really nice but lets stay friends".
Time to disable all my online dating profiles and focus my energy on other things I think.
Sorry to break it to you..........
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So sorry....... couldn't resist!![]()
^^ Kudos that man!
Is she buff?![]()
Good for you m8!
Bit of an update on my situation..
I met the girl who lives in LA on the 7th of October after nearly 3 months of emailing each other every day. I drove down to London as she was there looking for work while she stays in the UK. We had an amazing weekend together and after having a long chat about her job situation I invited her to stop with me to look for something around my local area. She agreed and for the last few weeks we've been having a great time together. It should feel odd that we're basically living together but the months we spent emailing really broke the ice and gave us the opportunity to get to know each other. Once we met and confirmed we had real chemistry the rest was just a formality. She's a fantastic person who has already restored my faith in relationships. I really couldn't be happier and I believe she feels exactly the same way![]()
Future plans are for us to stay here until April next year when she returns to LA to finish her degree. At that point I'll rent my house out and join her for between 6-10 months depending on the visa I get. Once she's graduated we have to either figure out a way to stay in the US or head somewhere else. One thing we both agree on is not wanting to live here once her degree ends.
Oh and she emailed me![]()
I think she's beautiful and I'm very picky![]()
Great result. I actually envy you.
Best of luck.![]()
Obligatory "Pics or it Didn't happen" remark!!![]()
haha I'm not sure if I'm allowed. Will ask her later![]()