Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Aye good work mate,

I met a girl at the weekend who i had msg on okc, second time of meeting her, not sure what to do next tho. We spent the whole afternoon together and evening but the next step is the crucial one, im not really sure how to go about getting physical with her, not talking sexy time but an activity that touch is common to open some doors up
 
not that I spend time on POF , but most of your photos are of you getting wasted or already wasted - do you have any nicer ones? maybe in front of a kitten or something?

and the setences read like a list/
 
00bob00 said:
Well if the weather isn't terrible, you could always walk along the canal/camden locks and go to london zoo - which isn't too far away.

if it isn't raining - edinboro castle is a nice place to drink and does gastropub food - nice beer garden especially.

if it is raining - as you're going on a sunday you can get 2-4-1 on cocktails at 55 bar - has a nice vibe if you can get a seat - walls are covered in music/gig posters

depending on the girl, if she's into music - the lock tavern is a good place to go.

can't go wrong with wagamamas for food either but there are a lot of nice little eating places on parkway - my personal fave place is the diner on jamestown road.

there's also an odeon, just in case it's going terribly and you want to sit in awkward silence for 2 hours.

DATE PLANNED.

personally i hate the market, too much going on and you get herded like cattle - i live on camden road :)
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Saw this a bit too late, but thanks!

We had a wander around the market, grabbed some food and then walked through Regent's Park. It was quite nice, just wish she could have stayed out longer. Ah well, there's always next time!
 
wijcc said:
I don't know what i am doing wrong.. but i seem to be getting no messages or anything...
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Welcome to online dating, where the guy has to be the one to initiate first contact.

Find some girls you like, pick out something in their profile and write a line or two to them.

If you're already doing this and not getting replies, post a link to your profile, as well as some messages you've sent, and some of us will have a look at them.
 
apeZ said:
Welcome to online dating, where the guy has to be the one to initiate first contact.

Find some girls you like, pick out something in their profile and write a line or two to them.

If you're already doing this and not getting replies, post a link to your profile, as well as some messages you've sent, and some of us will have a look at them.
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That's not true, I've had a few girls make the first contact and I wouldn't class myself as particularly attractive :p
 
I have found it's just down to getting the correct picture combinations really and let them come to you. Just change things up week on week. View it as an experiment. That's what I do now.

I need to get a picture of me with my mums fluffy dog and see if that helps. I don't mean anything else by that before anyone starts.
 
LOL milgo :D

Funnily enough I found putting pictures of me and my puppy on FaceBook results in a torrent of female attention.

Win.
 
Aaaaaaaa I've just signed up to POF.. new to online dating and I've gone over my profile about 20 times already changing bits, changing em back then changing them again! It's madness.

Received one message already but she was a little below my standards, wrote me a nice little message though so not sure whether to reply or not.

Do you guys generally do all the messaging rather than gals messaging you? I'll have to start doing that just gonna have to bite the bullet and accept rejection when it comes!

I need some new photos put up but my profile is: http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=36691962

If anyone can see anything seriously wrong with it then please help a OCUK brother out!
 
Hrm. I thought I'd met someone really cool IRL the other week, had loads of laughs, thought we had loads in common, and wasn't expecting anything to happen but I thought maybe there was something there. Sadly she seems to now be ignoring me. Texted her back asking if she was up for going out again about a week ago now and still nothing. Meh. Oh well, foreveralone.jpg :p

I don't know how some of you guys deal with the torrent of people ignoring you online but props for doing so! :p
 
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apeZ said:
Welcome to online dating, where the guy has to be the one to initiate first contact.

Find some girls you like, pick out something in their profile and write a line or two to them.

If you're already doing this and not getting replies, post a link to your profile, as well as some messages you've sent, and some of us will have a look at them.
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Then get into a conversation and be ignored even though the message the last message sent was perfectly ok! :p
 
Rotty said:
saw an advert earlier for a site called "uniform dating" or something similar

I just sat there in disbelief, surely not :eek:
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Iv seen that, it doesn't make any sense as it's for people "who work in uniform" or people who are "just attracted to the uniform" so anyone :confused:
 
Hmmm... So I met someone on Sunday and just got a message back saying they want to meet up again... Now the dilemma. What do we do? Never really done the dating from scratch thing so a bit stuck. We did some walking and a quiet drink last time so I'm thinking of something more active this time to get it more flirty and competitive, all I can think of is bowling however... Maybe just a some food and another drink?

Any suggestions?
 
Same boat here Amp34.

We went bowling the otherday, but need now an different activity preferably one where i can get some revenge after being beaten twice by her!
 
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