Keeper tbh.
Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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Keeper tbh.
The problem I've had this week is that all the girls who I like the sound of are complete eggface's and the one's who are fit are a thick as an elephants foreskin.
I'm wondering if I can satisfy both needs by datng two people. Having conversations with an intelligent one a banging the hell out of a fitty.
I'm wondering if I can satisfy both needs by datng two people. Having conversations with an intelligent one a banging the hell out of a fitty.
My thoughts exactly, and apparently she plays CoD. Now if we combine this with the fact she's on PoF then the only logical explanation is that she has a secret penis.
From what I've seen, girls with interests in Sci-fi, Science, and have a decent sense of humor tend to look like men, or are in fact men. But I shall continue searching for the holy grail!
You forgot or where men....
My only experience of a girl who liked gaming turned was funny as she was a failure in bed and relationships (plus she was terrible at pro evo so she got the boot eventually)
I was on POF and i saw this advert called findmelove, so i thought ok i'll give this a go for a laugh. Fake user/fake pass/fake email SEARCH
" You have 50mins to sign up to get the first month for 6.99 "
Ok skip, search and every single woman in my area is good looking and they all happen to live right next door. Ok nice one oh and 60% of them are models and ready for sex
Still nice to dream
EDIT : ooooh A sexy lady has added me as a favourite and one sent me a message, Lol dodgy considering they are BOTH offline!
" You have 50mins to sign up to get the first month for 6.99 "
Ok skip, search and every single woman in my area is good looking and they all happen to live right next door. Ok nice one oh and 60% of them are models and ready for sex
Still nice to dream
EDIT : ooooh A sexy lady has added me as a favourite and one sent me a message, Lol dodgy considering they are BOTH offline!
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Typical POF email:
"Are you into Sub or Dom?"
Ok.... been on one date from there and he didn't look like his profile pic (no wai!) had I not told him what I was wearing I would have probably missed him.
BB x
"Are you into Sub or Dom?"
Ok.... been on one date from there and he didn't look like his profile pic (no wai!) had I not told him what I was wearing I would have probably missed him.
BB x
Something else i found!
Signed up with a different profile on findmelove and the women change locations!, the same ginger girl was based in dover is now based in liverpool. haha also this girl living way down south west is now living next door to me based on my profile change.
Signed up with a different profile on findmelove and the women change locations!, the same ginger girl was based in dover is now based in liverpool. haha also this girl living way down south west is now living next door to me based on my profile change.
I think it's easier to just go out and talk to random girls than try message them on PoF. The good looking girls must have tons of chaps messaging them, thus it takes a lot for them to get invested in a conversation with one person in particular, mix that with emails which are days apart and it's pretty tough getting any kind of momentum.
I've managed to get 4 numbers so far but all have just fizzled out. It's pretty hard striking a good balance between getting to know someone online, and keeping things a bit distant to allow for conversation if you do meet up, without allowing either party to lose interest.
All in all I think it's better and a lot less effort to just grab your balls and approach women away from the intarwebs!
I've managed to get 4 numbers so far but all have just fizzled out. It's pretty hard striking a good balance between getting to know someone online, and keeping things a bit distant to allow for conversation if you do meet up, without allowing either party to lose interest.
All in all I think it's better and a lot less effort to just grab your balls and approach women away from the intarwebs!
Like where?, don't go to pubs or clubs as it's not my thing!. Tried joining a local hobby club, 99% all old men
Tried joining a local hobby club, 99% all old men
Kinda expected :lol:
Good looking women dont waste thier time going to hobby clubs, unfortunately in todays market the vast majority are only seen in clubs/pubs. We dont live in a climate where we can just approach women and talk to them outside of these areas (mostly).
Like where?, don't go to pubs or clubs as it's not my thing!. Tried joining a local hobby club, 99% all old men
Wherever the girls you want to meet on PoF would hang out/be.
I feel your pain, I work nights and when I do get a Saturday off, my mates even though mostly single don't want to go to town.
Ultimately even if you meet someone online, you'll want to meet them in person, so the only difference between online and offline dating is the initial approach was made online. Fair play it seems easier, but it does allow the woman to be very particular in who she replies to, and may take a week or even months to build enough comfort to go out on a date. Where as, approaching in person condenses this process down to a few minutes to hours, as it's much easier for both parties to figure out if they're interested in the other and want to take it further.
I'm no pimp daddy don't get me wrong. But there's definitely a certain buzz you get from social interaction than you do from virtual. I was out last night and saw this pretty nice girl in a pub, didn't approach her but she sat near so she obviously took notice. Me and my mates went to a few other pubs and we saw her again, she walked past and smiled asked if I was alone since I had a drink and was waiting for my mates to get served. Like a moron I said 'no' and she said 'good' and that was that. Looking back it was obviously her attempt to strike up a conversation with me and I didn't realize until after. IF I was more socially adept then I would probably have her number now, and no amount of internet approaches would have helped that.
So, basically I'm saying while internet dating is an easy way to skip the approach step, it doesn't help with approaching women in real life, and practice is the only way to get better and hopefully find someone you click with.
Oo almost cheesetastic
Usually I'm pretty quick witted so I was annoyed with myself for that one, never missing an opportunity like it again.
Like where?
Mecca Bingo?
Signed up with Match, spoke to a girl the past week and we're meeting Friday night for drinks. She seems pretty decent and 'real' so here's to hoping. To be honest, even if it fizzles out I won't bother again with online dating. I prefer snaring them the old fashioned way. Chloroform and white van.
I'd have to disagree. I've never had the confidence to approach anyone in person (sad I know) yet online I can talk to anyone, get numbers and arrange dates no problem. I've not dated anyone I'd class as unattractive and I'm very picky.
The good looking girls do have lots of emails which is why I like the challenge. Plus I don't want to date a minger lol.
I'm currently seeing a girl I met up with the other week. She wasn't interested at first but is cooking me dinner at hers tonight on our second date.
Good luck chappy
Yeah but that's the point, it's easy 'approaching' someone online and fair play if it does lead to a date, but you've not really improved or got any more confident in approaching women in real life.
I'd rather improve my confidence so much that If I saw a stunning girl at the bus stop or somewhere I wouldn't hesitate to approach her, and the only way to gain that confidence is to approach women in real life. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with a bit of internet dating, but I don't think it should be the only place you try to hook up with women. All fun and games!
Good luck chappy
Yeah but that's the point, it's easy 'approaching' someone online and fair play if it does lead to a date, but you've not really improved or got any more confident in approaching women in real life.
I'd rather improve my confidence so much that If I saw a stunning girl at the bus stop or somewhere I wouldn't hesitate to approach her, and the only way to gain that confidence is to approach women in real life. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with a bit of internet dating, but I don't think it should be the only place you try to hook up with women. All fun and games!
I do agree with that.
I've been told by some of the women I've dated that they would love me to come and talk to them proving that I can't be that bad looking. However, I can't. I suffer from the worst possible approach anxiety yet when I tell this to girls I meet on the net they don't believe me as I'm completely different, once I know I'm in (so to speak)
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