is it ignorant...

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to not say hi or hello [insert name of person here] when answering your mobile phone, as 99% of the time, the name of the person is displayed when it is ringing

i will always say hello [insert name of person here] a few of my friends just say hello though, which i think is a tad ignorant
 
On my own phone i would just say hello. It's not uncommon for friends to use other's phones etc and its not always the person phoning who you think.
I wouldnt get offended if i called someone and they didnt say my name tho.

On a work phone i would say "hello [my own name]"
 
How is it ignorant?

Most people don't say "Hello [insert name here]" when meeting people in person, so why should it be any different on the phone?
 
mmm all depends on what the other person is like......ive sometimes had phone calls from friends who say ill ring u back in 2 ticks......so phone rings a few moments later i answer and say something really stupid only to find its some one else lol.......

but no generaly if i know who is calling or who i am calling i usualy use there name.......
 
Phone Etiquette
Calling On the Phone

Courtesy is as important in speaking over the phone as in talking to people face to face. Phone calls generally should not be made before 7:00 in the morning or after 9:30/10:00 at night. Try to avoid mealtimes.

A person should always be certain of the number he is dialing to avoid disturbing someone unnecessarily. If you do reach a wrong number, it is important to say "I'm sorry, I dialed the wrong number." before hanging up.

After someone answers the phone, the caller should give his or her name before asking for the person desired.

When you talk on the telephone, remember:

your voice quality

express yourself clearly and concisely


The person at the other end of the phone cannot see your facial expressions or gestures and the impression he receives depends on what she hears. The telephone carries your voice at its natural volume and pitch. Try not to shout but speak clearly and distinctly.
Answering The Phone

The correct way to answer a telephone is "Hello." "Yes" is abrupt and a bit harsh, but "This is the Doe's house" is a bit vague and "Mrs. Doe speaking" is. . . . well, let's just put it this way, "Hello" is the most proper way to answer the telephone.

When the telephone in the home is answered by someone other than the head of the house and someone says, "May I speak to Mrs. Brown, please?" he or she should say, "Just a moment, please." If Mrs. Brown is unable to come to the phone, the correct reply is "Mrs. Brown can't come to the phone now. May I have your name, and she will call you back as soon as possible?"

If you must put the telephone down during the conversation, do it gently, and when you hang up, do it gently. DO NOT SLAM THE RECEIVER DOWN. The person at the other end may still have the phone close to his ear, and then a sudden sharp bang can be hurtful as well as rude.
Common Telephone Courtesy Hints
(1) Make sure of the correct number so as not to risk disturbing strangers.

(2) Make sure that your conversations with busy people are as brief as possible.

(3) When calling friends who do not recognize your voice, announce yourself right away.

(4) Time your calls so as not to interfere with the work schedule of those you call.

(5) Make business calls well before the close of the office hours.

(6) After dialing a wrong number simply say, "Sorry, wrong number."

(7) When the number you are calling is not answered quickly, wait long enough for someone to put aside what he or she is doing. It is very annoying to have been disturbed just to pick up the telephone and find the caller has hung up.
 
I always answer "Hello, [my name] speaking", even if taking a call on the mobile with the person calling being displayed. Admittedly I use work mobile for everything, so it's just more professional, but also I've had plenty of time's when someone else is calling me using another persons phone.
 
Nope - I usually either say 'Hello' in a variety of ways, 'Yep', 'Speak' or 'Go'. Depending on who it is or what mood I'm in. Rarely use the other person's name.
 
hang on, my op is misleading

i am saying if my friend ben called, i would know it was him and would say 'alright, ben'? as opposed to just 'hello'
 
hang on, my op is misleading

i am saying if my friend ben called, i would know it was him and would say 'alright, ben'? as opposed to just 'hello'

OK, do an experiment - say alright Ben next time he calls. The time after that just say hello. Check the world has not stopped spinning.
 
I don't always look at my phone before answering, if I do sometimes I'll say the persons name, sometimes I won't, never heard of anyone being offended by me just saying hello before. You are an idiot.
 
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