I think everyone will have some inherently racist thought patterns from time to time in the sense that we all prefer what we know and distrust what we don’t. We like familiarity and dislike the unknown. We are consciously able to recognise and act on these feelings or not.
I don’t think that has anything to do with being or a particular race though.
Is that racist or is it simply cultural. How can something be racist when you do it to one group and not when you do it to another. If it was racially driven then you wouldn't apply that same logic to the other group. It would be like calling someone racist for not liking rap music when they don't like Swedish house music either.
This is kind of where society has come to. Where we are so keen to scream racism at anything deemed negative towards someone of colour instead of perhaps wondering if there could be another reason for it.
“Race is an issue in our marriage because as a white woman of privilege, I have racist tendencies written in at a cellular level.”
https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/royal-family/harry-meghan-genevieve-roth-b1821582.html
I read that article and its actually sad how she has convinced herself that any behaviour of her husbands is OK because be is black and she is white.
He got so angry that he nearly crashed the car which could have killed them but its OK, he was worried that if a cop stops him for expired plates they might decide to shoot him for no reason. Man she is so racist for not knowing that its a serious concern for black people if they have expired plates. He is not at all at fault for nearly crashing the car.
She pushed him to negotiate a better salary without realising black men are underpaid even compared to white women!!!! Lets ignore for a second that the wage gap has been demonstrably disproved when you look at anything beyond the "average man gets X, average woman gets Y" and try and understand how its racist for her to try and help him get a better salary.
I don't understand what its like to go without food every day, I don't understand what its like to have so much money that spending £1m on a wedding is nothing. This is simply ignorance of things outside your sphere of knowledge. Its not racist to not know what other people deal with.
“To be raised white in America is to be told in countless small ways that how you live is correct. It means having your image and your values reflected back at you – in the education you received, the toys you were sold, the ideals of beauty you were given”
Yeah, its called culture. If you go to Ghana they won't be teaching you American culture, religious ideals or asking you to vote for the president of the US. US culture is driving by its white population, thats true but it has a rich tapestry of different cultures that are interwoven with white culture. Any countries culture will be directed by the dominant group whether they are black or white.
I genuinely have no idea what the end game for people like this. Do they want every country to have the same culture and somehow educate everyone on every different culture, way of thinking and ideas.
We keep giving nutters like her a voice instead of people who can deal with issues of actual racism and bigotry rather than the "racism is everywhere and occurs every time anything negative happens to a person of colour".