Kindest way to break up with your girlfriend?

Just tell her "I don’t feel that there is enough room in my life for you and the Overclockers forum"
 
mcast said:
Truth is I don't find her attractive anymore, which is probably the worst thing I could say.
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did she get fat?

fairly standard - girls get into a relationship, think its going well and then just let themselves go....

update status to single, delete from friends move on and pretend she never existed

if she then gets slim again you can always take advantage of her low self esteem by pretending you made a mistake, offer to make things right, smash pasty a few more times then dump again...
 
and for the non douchebag option - just tell her!!!!!! be honest! you don't think its going to work out in the long term and so would rather just let her know up front and end it on good terms so she can move on and find someone else instead of putting effort into a relationship that is going nowhere.
 
send me a link to her Facebook and ill drop her a PM telling her ive seen you doing things you shouldn't be doing. trust me, you'll never hear off her again
 
mcast said:
I've been avoiding all contact with my girlfriend for 3 days now hoping she will realize it's over, but the texts keep coming. I'm feeling guilty that avoidance isn't the best way to end things. The relationship is over for me but she's a nice girl and I really don't want to hurt her.

Suggestions on what to say to her? everything I can think of sounds cheesy e.g. "it's not you it's me" or "I prefer to be single". Truth is I don't find her attractive anymore, which is probably the worst thing I could say.

inb4 "tell her you're gay"
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Say it to her face dude, she atleast deserves that and will respect you more for it.
 
Freefaller said:
You're being more unkind to her by not telling her anything and ignoring her.

Be a man and tell her - yes it's not easy, yes it'll break her heart (possibly) - but doing nothing is wrong.
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This pretty much...FFS man up and tell her straight...yes it will hurt her especially if she has feelings for you but in the end you want to end it, so end it like a man.

Im sure if the shoe was on the other foot, you would be raging pretty hard wouldnt you at the way shes avoiding you.

Do the decent thing and tell her straight.
 
Tell her that its not working out, you don't feel the same way, you don't want to be nasty to her and make her miserable and thats what would happen if you keep going, theres no-one else but you need some time alone, she deserves someone better.

Pick a few of the above and jobs a good un.
 
Freefaller said:
You're being more unkind to her by not telling her anything and ignoring her.

Be a man and tell her - yes it's not easy, yes it'll break her heart (possibly) - but doing nothing is wrong.
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This is the right thing to do.

King Damager said:
Find a better way of wording 'I don't find you attractive'.

Alternatively, if you really want to kill it, tell her you cheated on her. Although that's an awful thing to do (to tell her even if you didn't), it'd probably work :p

kd
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This is the wrong thing to do!

Alternatively, you could work loads of hours, then go over her place to drink beer and play Flight Sim
 
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