Kissing girl mates

I treat people depending entirely on the person and their personality, not sex. Some blokes I insult on meeting them, some get a handshake, one gets a hug. Some women get pecks on the cheek, a couple on the lips and the rest a camp hand shake and a high pitched "Hi" although God knows why I do that.

If someone's getting bent out of shape over a peck then it sounds to me as if they are fairly insecure.
 
im friends with loads of girls that i have no intention of being any closer with, not because they arent "fit" or "nice" just 'cause there is no interest, so i think you are wrong.
 
spirit said:
im friends with loads of girls that i have no intention of being any closer with, not because they arent "fit" or "nice" just 'cause there is no interest, so i think you are wrong.
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100% of people have answered thus so far :cool:
 
big_white_dog84 said:
No man can truly be friends with a girl. No chance. No way. There is always an element of seed planting in preparation for copulation at a later date. Always.
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Rubbish, some of my best mates are girls.
 
big_white_dog84 said:
I have done reseach on this topic. I would nail every single woman I consider to be a friend. 998 of my 999 friends agree. One guy doesn't.
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Why not just survey your female frends and ask if they want sex? :confused:

Some of them will probably say no, but if you're happy to 'nail' any of them just one yes is a result, right?
 
big_white_dog84 said:
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Really? Wow.

big_white_dog84 said:
Can anyone honestly honestly say that if any of their female friends offered them it on a plate they would say no?
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You said ALL female friends, not ANY female friends. Of course there are females I count as friends that I fancy, thats just the way of the world. If something happened between us then it happened. If we're both single no harm done.

However, if they 'laid it on a plate' I'd probably say no.
 
One More Solo said:
Man, you have issues.
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Got to agree with that.
Don't think I'd be able to stay with someone that was so distrusting of me no matter how much I cared about them :/

Personally I hug male friends and kiss some of them on the cheek, but it does entirely depend on the friend. I must be picky :p
 
Strange how this thread has gone down the road it has! :p

I think it depends entirely on the situation, how long you've known them, and past history with them.
Some situations, like them or you being in a relationship would mean that you wouldnt.
If you've known them for ages, then theres almost no chance of nout happening, so theres no 'urge' to do anything.
If you've already 'been there', then theres no urge either. But if you havnt, theres a certain curiosity about them.
A combination of the above and many other factors would lead to the answer being yes/no. Theres no concrete answer really. :)
 
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big_white_dog84 said:
Can anyone honestly honestly say that if any of their female friends offered them it on a plate they would say no?
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Already have. After knowing each other for years she suddenly came on to me with no warning or reason that I could see. Maybe I'm just too suspicious?
 
big_white_dog84 said:
22. Can anyone honestly honestly say that if any of their female friends offered them it on a plate they would say no?
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I have several female friends who would really shock me, upset me, and make me say a very certain no to if that ever happened. They're good friends, I know there's nothing else and I know they do too, that's wonderful, do you really not believe that's possible?

Of course I have friends I fancy, everyone does, but that's not really the point.

big_white_dog84 said:
I don't do either. I wouldn't expect my gf to touch any other man, and in return I don't touch any other girl
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You, my friend, are missing the point more than I thought possible. no one is talking about "touching" anyone, we're talking about an occassional friendly kiss. Are you really so insecure about that?
 
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Gilly said:
Yes he can, and no there isn't.

Maybe you've still some growing up to do?

I'm platonic with a couple of lasses. Never been a thought in my mind of going for it with them.
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Indeed, I am the same. Even with my ex-girlfriend we remain very close friends, no awkwardness and no thoughts at all. Like Gilly says, it's all about maturity.
 
Gilly said:
100% of people have answered thus so far :cool:
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I talked about this earlier in the thread and lots of people said their mates were just girls they wanted to hook up with at a later date...I think its a bit of both :o

Its definately possible to have totally platonic relationships with girls, i have far too many for my own liking :( but its also safe to say that lots of men are 'friends' with girls just because they want to bang them.
 
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