lads - would you feel cheated on if your missus...

Dude I got red with rage with reading your OP. I know how big a thing it is, but I hope you dont continue your engagement with her, this is horrible, despicable behaviour.

To the people who say "so worse doesn't happen on a stag do?", If it does, then the wedding, the marriage and the relationship is a sham which isn't worth bothering with. It certainly won't happen on mine. In fact I like one chap's idea of a bbq with family as a celebration.
 
Not defending her but this was a hen night and probably got carried away your just better off not knowing tbh.
 
Who gives a crap anyway. Sick of hearing about "these" types of women to be totally honest, wish they would all FOAD.
 
I have no objection to people behaving that way generally. I don't see anything wrong with a person going further and putting on a live sex show with a dozen people they never even met before, if that's what they want to do.

What I do see as being wrong is doing it while in a monogamous relationship. I'd say that the woman in the original post is cheating on her man and he'd be well advised to think twice about marrying her. Unless he isn't bothered about it, of course. It's his call, really.
 
Her last chance to do something naughty before she was married, she had a bit of fun

So simply because it's your last chance to do it makes it okay?

If she went out on a normal weekend with some girlfriends and did this, would you be okay with it?

If my girlfriend went out each week getting felt up by guys, kissing other guys etc... I'd blow a gasket, and she'd be out the door.

If she went out on her hen night and was getting felt up by other guys, kissing other guys... I'd blow a gasket, and she'd be out the door.

Simply because it's your last chance to do it, doesn't mean it's right.

Your last chance to kiss another guy, and willingly know that your going to be in situations where other guys will feel you up and you won't do anything but enjoy it... that last chance is the day before you entered a serious relationship surely? Not the night you have your Hen, not before you take the leap from serious relationship to marriage.
 
I've been on many hen nights and I've never seen any 1 of the "hens" act like that. It's a night to get drunk, dance and generally be stupid with your female friends :)
 
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