Le relationship thread (keeping it short)

Holliday · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:24

Rhaos said:
Its not about the Boyfriend being Alpha its about him being aware that if he lets his GF go to a club he has to be aware that other guys will try to crack onto her even though shes spoken for. So if you are going to let her go to a club go with her.
True, I am a little worried when my GF has gone clubbing in the past as I know what guys are like, hell I know what Im like when I go out with my friends there is nothing wrong with that however I have a little more ammunition than the OP essentially I know how to treat my lady and how to keep her coming back for more. Who knows, she may leave me one day, that's cool, but I;ve got plenty of other options out there and I certainly wouldn't be putting u pa post in the GD crying about what my GF as done. For me its a simple "Next..."

Haha, ammunition you have indeed but sadly you're firing blanks.

Mysteries pick-up is quite shallow, it's just about picking up women with canned lines and routines.

I think you're missing the whole point of being a 'PUA'. It's not about getting women with corny lines. Yes there seems to be a certain routine women go through when meeting someone, attraction, qualification etc. But at the end of the day it's not what you say but how you say it, but more importantly who you are.

You blabber off talking about being the alpha yet not letting your g/f go out as you're worried she'll be picked up. You've obviously read the material but not really understood it. The most important things to take from 'PUA' is not how to pull a woman, but how to be a man, how to walk with good posture, project your voice, have opinions, have an inner confidence, THEN you can use this to get the woman of your dreams.

Sp00n · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:25

Dj_Jestar said:
One thing about "Game". It's a load of tripe. It's "played" by "players" who don't want relationships, they want hussies and hoes. This is a relationship thread. Not a "how to treat women like applicances" thread.

Luseac · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:26

I think I would rather stay single for the rest of my life than admit to reading "the game" and other such nonsense. It all just smacks of putting girls on a pedastool. If I meet a girl that gets bored of me then i'll be sure to throw her your way Rhaos, just be sure you've got the right chapter of "the game" open. Oh and try not to let her find you reading it.

regulus · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:26

Rhaos, I said it would hurt my friend. You're posting complete and utter crap. It's embarrassing. I'm sure you have something to share and something to mention that's worthwhile listening to. It's just not on relationships.

Metalface Mark · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:29

lucasade1 said:
I think I would rather stay single for the rest of my life than admit to reading "the game" and other such nonsense. It all just smacks of putting girls on a pedastool. If I meet a girl that gets bored of me then i'll be sure to throw her your way Rhaos, just be sure you've got the right chapter of "the game" open. Oh and try not to let her find you reading it.

You should read the book, its fantastically entertaining, its a great read, it was no.1 bestseller.

J4K3 M · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:30

What a load of ****** you talk like Rhaos.

If your man enough and keep her entertained let her go to clubs then because if you're so good of a bf then she wont need to go with any one else no matter how much they hit on her. hell when i was going out with one of my ex gf ( I broke up with her before you say something) it didnt even bother me when lads talked to her, hell if they bought her a drink saves her money and if i was there and they did it saved me money. I always new she would say no i have a boyfriend when anything else went to happen.

You mustnt keep her that entertained if you wont let her off that leash

Luseac · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:30

Metalface Mark said:
You should read the book, its fantastically entertaining, its a great read, it was no.1 bestseller.

I've had mates tell me about it, and the whole "excuse me, settle an argument" type chat up lines. It's for the completely inept and sad men who, as I say, put women on a pedastool and are so damn desperate to get their end away that they resort to reading a book about talking to women.

I also think that such chat up lines and methods must now be cringeworthingly obvious to women.

Rhaos · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:30

Metalface Mark said:
Post it here, you wont find it Rhaos.

Pick up is all about inner game, if you dont let your girlfriend off the leash, then you dont have any inner game.

Sorry, but that's the case!

I'll dig the video out, and post the clip where Mystery says about letting your girl go out clubbing.

And like I said before I do let my GF off the leash but if she goes clubbing I'll go with her. simple. But is she still with me? Yes shes been with me for 3 years. Does she moan when I dont let her go clubbing herself? NO she wants me to go with her as we have a laugh when we go out clubbing together. Do I ever let her go clubbing alone? Yes sometimes but I dont like to especially because I know what men are like. I dont claim to be the best looking guy in the world or the greatest pick up artist. I know I have flaws and I know Im not perfect so forgive me if I worry a little when she does go out to clubs without me. I guess thats what love does to you and yes I am loved up with my GF.

^TANK^ · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:31

Regulus said:
And yes, things are good right now and I have no desire to go poking around the past. I'm leaving it.

I would need to know personally it would slowly eat away at the back of my mind, once a cheat always a cheat

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Angilion said:
I wouldn't end a relationship over a one-off sex-only cheating. A relationship with someone else, yes. Sex with someone else, no. Got a bit drunk, shagged some random from a club? I can forgive that. It's not massively important.

Different people, different reactions.

Angilion I'm shocked that you would let your other half get away with cheating on you :eek:

. You're basically saying that you're happy to have the **** taken out of you!

Rhaos said:
Not smoking a thing at the moment, but I'll tell you something, my GF's I;'ve had in the past and my current one atm are no way allowed to go to clubs.

Your relationship is essentially dead if you don't trust her, however you look at it. Is your girlfriend as equally as controlling as yourself? Meaning will she not let you go out with the lads unless she is present? If it works both ways I guess that fair, but if it only works one way :rolleyes:

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Rhaos · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:32

lucasade1 said:
I've had mates tell me about it, and the whole "excuse me, settle an argument" type chat up lines. It's for the completely inept and sad men who, as I say, put women on a pedastool and are so damn desperate to get their end away that they resort to reading a book about talking to women.

Actually its the opposite. Its about not putting the woman on a pedastal. Its learning to change who you are to be more appealing to women.

Sp00n · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:33

Rhaos said:
I guess thats what love does to you and yes I am loved up with my GF.

regulus · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:33

Rhaos said:
Its learning to change who you are to be more appealing to women.

Did I read this right? :confused:

Rhaos · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:35

^TANK^ said:
I would need to know personally it would slowly eat away at the back of my mind, once a cheat always a cheat .

Angilion I'm shocked that you would let your other half get away with cheating on you . You're basically saying that you're happy to have the **** taken out of you!

Your relationship is essentially dead if you don't trust her, however you look at it. Is your girlfriend as equally as controlling as yourself? Meaning will she not let you go out with the lads unless she is present? If it works both ways I guess that fair, but if it only works one way .

I do trust her, we have a joint bank account

I just I dont like her going to clubs without me and if its up to me I don't let her go. doesn't mean I dont trust her and it certainly doesnt mean shes doesnt go to clubs without me. But I dont have to like it.

I have to trust her that what having relationships are about. Im just careful about it thats all. Clubs are essentially meat markets to meet women/men.

J4K3 M · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:35

Rhaos said:
my GF's I;'ve had in the past and my current one atm are no way allowed to go to clubs. I dont let them period because thats where guys that are after women go and they dont give a **** if the girl has a boyfriend or is married.

Rhaos said:
. Do I ever let her go clubbing alone? Yes sometimes but I dont like to especially because I know what men are like.

Hang on you do let her go clubbing? or you dont?
Make up your mind will you. Shows how much **** your talking

Luseac · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:36

Rhaos said:
Actually its the opposite. Its about not putting the woman on a pedastal. Its learning to change who you are to be more appealing to women.

And you see no problem/strangeness changing who you are because you are so desperate to meet a woman? So desperate in fact that you purchase a book telling you how to change? A book which has now probably been read by large swathes of females who will just laugh when they see some "tatics" in use?

Sp00n · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:37

Rhaos said:
I do trust her, we have a joint bank account I just I dont like her going to clubs without me and if its up to me I don't let her go. doesn't mean I dont trust her and it certainly doesnt mean shes doesnt go to clubs without me. But I dont have to like it.

I have to trust her that what having relationships are about. Im just careful about it thats all. Clubs are essentially meat markets to meet women/men.

I've got some news for you, you don't trust her, if you did, you wouldn't care where she went.

Holliday · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:37

regulus said:
Did I read this right?

The Game, the book isn't really about pick-up. It's just Neil Strauss' account of meeting Mystery and all the events than ensued. Very funny actually, if I remember correctly at one point they buy a mansion in Hollywood and have tons of wannabe pick up artists living there, they all shave their heads to look alike Neil Strauss whilst studying his mannerisms, fun times!

Dj_Jestar · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:37

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mystery_(pickup_artist)

Hmm.. "pickup artist" .. author of "The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed." and "The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction."

Not a thing in there about relationships, only about scoring chicks. Funny that.

Dj_Jestar · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:38

Sp00n said:
I've got some news for you, you don't trust her, if you did, you wouldn't care where she went.

That'll be because he thinks there will be other men out there with his powers, where women simply cannot resist and will aquaplane off the very seat they are sat on as he walks past, leaving their knickers floating in air.

^TANK^ · 10 Feb 2011 at 16:39

Rhaos said:
I do trust her, we have a joint bank account I just I dont like her going to clubs without me and if its up to me I don't let her go. doesn't mean I dont trust her and it certainly doesnt mean shes doesnt go to clubs without me. But I dont have to like it.

I have to trust her that what having relationships are about. Im just careful about it thats all. Clubs are essentially meat markets to meet women/men.

^TANK^ said:
Is your girlfriend as equally as controlling as yourself? Meaning will she not let you go out with the lads unless she is present? If it works both ways I guess that fair, but if it only works one way .