Longest wait?

Raymond Lin · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:53

Psy-Blade said:
Haha. Well I walked to my car this morning after talking to her. Walked back in and told her to end it if that's what she wants. She told me she honestly didn't know. Hence the time apart.

She knows. Deep down she knows.

Why would she give up something she loves?

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:53

Milkybk said:
Why would you wait a month for her to break up with you? Just save face and dump her.

You girlfriend obviously moved on ages ago, you may as well too.

Because we've talked about this for a few weeks. She's genuinely not sure what she wants.

eatcustard · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:53

Psy-Blade said:
Haha. Well I walked to my car this morning after talking to her. Walked back in and told her to end it if that's what she wants. She told me she honestly didn't know. Hence the time apart.

What she really means is...

... found a different bloke and seeing if he is a better prospect.

just move on

Xavier · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:55

Rape her hard and without mercy.

Then kill her.

Ciphon · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:55

Game Over tbh.

I reckon I'd consider this a break up, and try to move on.

If it so happens that she does contact you in a month and says she still wants to be with you, then great! You can make your decision then.

L0rdMike · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:55

Having a break from a relationship basically means its over.

Hate · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:56

From my experience going 'on a break' means that she wants to ultimately break up, but you've done nothing wrong.

Brian8bit · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:57

If a woman said to me "we need a break" I'd tell her to pack her stuff and do one. Not worth the ****ing hassle.

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:57

Ciphon said:
If it so happens that she does contact you in a month and says she still wants to be with you, then great! You can make your decision then.

I am trying to move on, I'm not holding on to every last bit of hope. I'm just really looking forward to going on this date with her in a month...

Cosimo · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:59

Milkybk said:
This won't end well.

It will inevitably end in a break-up.

unKn0wn · 26 Dec 2010 at 16:00

I've heard the "We need a break" line a few times. They all had their eyes on another bloke. One tried to come back. She got told where to go. Then I did two of her best mates.
This will not end well. Try and move on mate. If she gets back in touch talk about it then. As its already been said.

DO NOT call her or make any effort at all.

Nitefly · 26 Dec 2010 at 16:01

Raymond Lin said:
She knows. Deep down she knows.

Why would she give up something she loves?

Because sometimes you don't always know what you've got until it's gone, perhaps.

Brian8bit · 26 Dec 2010 at 16:02

Nitefly said:
Because sometimes you don't always know what you've got until it's gone, perhaps.

Then someone puts up a parking lot.

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 16:02

unKn0wn said:
DO NOT call her or make any effort at all.

Her sister already deleted her number from my phone. She said she'll give it me back at a later date so that we can finalise our date type thing.

*waits for comments saying to bone her sister.

eatcustard · 26 Dec 2010 at 16:03

Bone her sister

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 16:04

Nitefly said:
Because sometimes you don't always know what you've got until it's gone, perhaps.

This is kinda the line she has told me. Since we've been iffy I've made every effort to go and see her. 1: this was too much for her. We've NEVER been like that, seeing each other once a week for a few nights. Or even going 2 or 3 weeks without seeing each other.

and 2: she doesn't know if she behaves as she does now as she's just used to it. Does she show less enthusiasm when she see's me because she see's me so often for example. Or is it because she doesn't want to. That's pretty much what she wants to answer for herself.