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You will lose your friend over this.

You and this girl will have fun, shag and split up. And you will try and get your friend back and fail.

Been there, done that myself. Regret it.

But you will not listen to anyone in this thread because all you want is to have sex. Which is fine but this sex comes with a really important price.

Posting her picture was idiotic though. Why do that.
 
Women come and go, friendship should last forever. Is it really worth risking losing a friend over this?
 
OP, do you find it hard to get women? The only real reason somebody will screw a mate over for a vagina is if it's the only one he can realistically guarantee. This however doesn't make it any better, infact it makes it worse. :/

Your mate must be soft as you still have fingers to operate a keyboard, and the people defending your actions in here must be awful friends to people they know. Mothers, sisters and ex's are all off limits in equal measure, and all punishable by death in the male kingdom (not even an exaggeration for the former two).
 
I'd say he has no right to be upset.

How old are you? 6 years on and off if you're young just screams the stereotypical immature relationships where neither person wants to be alone so they just **** around for ages.
 
lol omaeka for real? maybe if you were older than twenty you would realise women arent just a vagina and you have no right to control who your ex dates.

odds on this mate ever getting back with this woman? if its 0 then sorry but you blew it and seem to have moved on then anyone can move in their imo better it be someone you know who will take good care of this woman...

I bet your another one of those "good enough to be my friend , not good enough to date my sister types"
 
Oh this strange belief that two seperated people some how have ownership over another still and believe they should get angry over it if someone else they knows gets close to them.
Never understood it, couldn't care less if it happened to me, it's none of your business anymore, it's really boggles my mind people honestly think like this and have this as their excuse to get angsty.

It's childish drama 101, grow up :|.
 
Welshy said:
I'm sorry, but what was the purpose of creating this thread? This was never going to be a discussion, but everybody saying how they hold the correct opinion.
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This thread can only be settled by one thing.

A poll! :p

I'm firmly in the 'OP now has the right to do whatever he wants as long as he doesn't do it in his friends face' camp.
 
Begbie said:
No but it's his mate, if any of my mates got with someone I'd been with for 6 years I'd feel sick.

I couldn't cope with it, having to see her all the time. Knowing she is getting smashed by your best (close) mate.
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Quoted for truth!

Get with this girl if you think she's worth it but be prepared to lose your friend.
 
Well lets just say from experience an ex mate of mine is taking it badly that I've supposedly got with his girlfriend after he moved out of the county a few weeks ago.
Never mind. She is ace and he is a bit of a pillock.
Onwards and upwards!
I hope it works out for you OP.

**** the "rules" and look after No.1 I say.
Either he deals with it and you become friends again or he moves on.
Que Sera, Sera
 
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Just to add to my earlier post.

If your mate is that close to you then he'll realise that at least she's not with some complete stranger who could treat her badly. I highly doubt he cares for either of your happiness.
 
With all the women out there I just don't know why you would chose the one with all the hassle. Did you want her when they were together? It's a choice that makes the least sense. You don't care at all for your friendship as you in your heart of hearts knew what would happen, You know your friend better than any of us. It doesn't matter if people feel it's right or wrong all that matters is what your friend thinks and also any other friends who you both share, You could find some of those having a lot less trust in you. Hope she is worth it. Give us a update in 6 months please.
 
They had an on off relationship for 6 years during which you know your friend cheated on her.

If you felt so strongly for her did you tell her that he did this?

Also...do you know she didn't cheat on him?

Granted, and as others have said she doesn't belong to your friend but he still evidently has feelings and if you were any kind of decent friend you wouldn't want to cause him hurt. I'd still say leave well alone. Keep little uksoldierboy in his cage.
 
Pictures required of said girl to make informed decision.

Opps: should have read pages 2-4 and not just first and last!
 
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