Small update, would recommend if you guys enjoy playing but struggle getting a group or a coordinated group, that you try looking up the 201st Strykers. Most of them are American with a small EU core, but they tend to play between about 1800-0600 GMT so there's nearly always someone on in the evening.
They're pretty friendly if a bit mad, and seem to understand work and life restrictions, but encourage fun, and TS communication.
INGAME - currently just bought my Dragon 1C to get the perks and playing around the loadout whilst I wait to save the cash for the upgrades for it.