Cant stand padded shorts, I find them uncomfortable, just embrace the grind, eventually you'll have a leather gooch like me.
Finding the right saddle for you is so much more important, unfortunately it really is just a case of trial and error until you find the profile that suits your gooch/cheeks.
Personally i've found over the years a more narrow and less padded saddle like the SDG fly suits me more, more heavily padded saddles start out more comfortable but my theory is that the extra cushion creates more movement over long rides and is a detriment in the long run. took me about 15 years or trying and persevering with all types of saddle profile/padding level.
Finding the right saddle for you is so much more important, unfortunately it really is just a case of trial and error until you find the profile that suits your gooch/cheeks.
Personally i've found over the years a more narrow and less padded saddle like the SDG fly suits me more, more heavily padded saddles start out more comfortable but my theory is that the extra cushion creates more movement over long rides and is a detriment in the long run. took me about 15 years or trying and persevering with all types of saddle profile/padding level.