Mrs just left me..

[kwerk]

Even if you haven't split up drama like that isn't worth it. Find someone more grown up.

Like Magnolia said cut all ties, dont let a woman hold any kind of emotional power over you. the bonus is when you simply ignore her and seem unphased and move on she will most likely be utterly confused and demoralized after not getting the expected drama she most likely craves and feels entitled to

 

[Angilion]

I agree with everything you have said and posted. And fully understand it all and everything in the link from earlier. If anything, the best advice in this thread..... And yet, We both know its inevitable ill go against it. Urhhhg

Stage 1 is denial. Which is what you're doing. You even know you're doing it, but you're going to do it anyway.

I'm not criticising you for that, just pointing out that you're doing it. I've done it, more than once. I'd bet good money that a very large majority of people have done it. As a general rule, humans are very skilled at fooling themselves. Perhaps it's an inevitable side effect of intelligence.

 

[MissChief]

TL;DR.

Move on. Smash other pasty. Forget her. Bag her possesions. Send her text asking when she can collect it. On said day make sure you're not there but have friend to make sure she only takes her stuff. Did I mention move on and smash other pasty? She wants space? Give it to her. And smash other pasty.

 

[cheechm]

What did the letter even say?

 

[Cupra]

What did the letter even say?

That someone else is smashing her pasty.

 

[Kamwah]

That someone else is smashing her chocolate starfish.

Fixed for you.

 

[K1LLSW1TCH]

What did the letter even say?

It's not me, it's you.

 

[arknor]

Screw it.. Lets tell you lot all! ...... Conversation from tonight...

Mrs: 1:30am
You awake?
Mrs: I need to pop in to pick my portfolio up

Yup thats all she wants dont let her get it

 

[bloodline76]

I call BS. Someone called `Chocolatestarfishrammer` is getting all emotional about his GF leaving him. Can't believe you lot have been sucked in.

 

[chief barker]

I call BS. Someone called `Chocolatestarfishrammer` is getting all emotional about his GF leaving him. Can't believe you lot have been sucked in.

Maybe if his name was 'tea towel holder' it may have held some ground?

 

[Angilion]

I call BS. Someone called `Chocolatestarfishrammer` is getting all emotional about his GF leaving him. Can't believe you lot have been sucked in.

People don't always choose their own names here. Sometimes they ask for their forum name to be changed. Sometimes that results in it being changed to whatever most amuses people in GD at the time, which will probably be puerile. I think "Chocolatestarfishrammer" is an example of that.

 

[chief barker]

People don't always choose their own names here. Sometimes they ask for their forum name to be changed. Sometimes that results in it being changed to whatever most amuses people in GD at the time, which will probably be puerile. I think "Chocolatestarfishrammer" is an example of that.

What? the mods change the names to their amusement?

I know i'm tired from the night shift please explain.

 

[bloodline76]

People don't always choose their own names here. Sometimes they ask for their forum name to be changed. Sometimes that results in it being changed to whatever most amuses people in GD at the time, which will probably be puerile. I think "Chocolatestarfishrammer" is an example of that.

Can we confirm this? Mod?

 

[Angilion]

What? the mods change the names to their amusement?

I know i'm tired from the night shift please explain.

Every now and again, someone will publically ask on the forums to have their name changed.

The custom is for this to be taken as an open invitation to post a reply suggesting ridiculous names for them. Mods will sometimes pick the suggestion that amuses them most and change the person's forum name to that.

If someone wants a name change to something specific of their own choosing, the best course of action is to contact a mod directly with their request.

 

[bloodline76]

I claim BS...

Ive had far tooo much to drink..

SSo, Do I.

A. Send a message to the girl who works at the pub via facebook that we've both been flirting between for that last 2 months.

B. Stay loyal to my current gf who I not only live with but have been with for 4 years.

C. Think more about how amazingly this girls boobs bounce at the pub, especially when she comes over and cleans the table for the 50th time bending over and showing full cleavage.

D: Get another Beer.

E: Open to suggestion

Says in this thread that he has been with his GF for 3 years, but in that he says 4 years.

Hardly sounds lke the emotional type actively flirting with other girls. Sounds like she has caught on and screwed you before you do her

Maybe his GF is a member on here

 

[chief barker]

Every now and again, someone will publically ask on the forums to have their name changed.

The custom is for this to be taken as an open invitation to post a reply suggesting ridiculous names for them. Mods will sometimes pick the suggestion that amuses them most and change the person's forum name to that.

If someone wants a name change to something specific of their own choosing, the best course of action is to contact a mod directly with their request.

Oh phew...I was worried my name would be changed to 'Horace P Mc'Titties'

Actually that sounds quite good........MODS! over here!

 

[Castiel]

Can we confirm this? Mod?

I can confirm it. I made Chocolatestarfishrammer up, and supplied the signature for him as well.

 

[Kanifee]

God, people of GD need to learn how to keep a woman!

I keep mine just because I am an amazing dancer. I set the dance floor alight. People gasp and point in amazement.

Learn to dance people, learn to dance!

Who's that guy!


Sad as it is you are young and it is all part of the learning curve of life, you now have the problem that if she does come back to you it will play on your mind if she will do it again.

 

[smelly_legend]

Don't bother with her, she's obviously no where near enough good for you. If she hasn't left you in dire financial states don't worry about the money, it will only complicate matters. And even if it isn't sex, I would defo try and keep friendly company, not even trying for sex, but I personally wouldn't turn it down if it comes along, as usually masculinity can be part of the issue in my own head. Aside from that, good luck man.

 

[Camalot]

I'll make it simple.

Short Version

Cut her out and don't contact her.

If she wants you, she will come get you.

If not, it was never meant to be anyway, carry on cutting her out.

Long Version

I was with a girl once who did the same to me. I had the same advice but thought i knew best and i was an exception to the rule. I carried on seeing her to try "win her back"

She got with someone else not long after and i was left an emotional wreck, i'd cry in the shower in the mornings, cry at work etc! I'm not ashamed to admit that, but it's where you will be if you do not take the advice on here.

The only advice i would advise you ignore is the go bang someone else ASAP advice. Although this may work for some, it won't work for many others. I would suggest you stay single, don't put your emotional state in a compromising position by getting involved with another girl in any way. Take 6 months - 1 year out and make it "me time". This is what i ended up doing, i've now been living with the girl in my sig for two years and is a much better girl in every way

Good look mate and please take the advice.