Oh yea you do hajj if you are fit to do it. Basically if you arent physically capable then you dont have to. Thats what ive been told.
It is said that once we have the ability financially and physically to go to Hajj then it our right to go because once you lose your physical ability or financial ability thenyou have to answer to allah when you die about why you never took that chance. This is what ive been told and that you only need to go to Hajj once in your life to clear your lifes sins no matter how large they were. This is why the elderly go mainly.
Women can also go to Hajj but only on one condition, that they go with a man that she cannot marry ie: Brother/Uncle/Father or if she is married then her husband also etc.
It is hard trying to keep up with religion all the time, your parents were raised completely differently, socially and culturally so they do not know what it is like today for young people to follow the same oute and you find yourself questioning religions worth the older you go from about the age of 10.
One thhing that really annoys me is the lack of respect for other religions though, granted everyone can have their pinion but I have seen and experienced when parents do not allow you to learn about other religions at school (RE) and instead of doing that lesson we are allowed off. I feel it wouldbe a right to learn about other religions, not to follow but to gain knowledge about them and different cultures and compare the differences form your own. This I believe is slowly fading away though.
I have nothing against any other man or his religion/habits. If my mates drink or do whatever in front of me or if we are out then i respect that, that's their decision and not mine.
Also there is the major bummer no sex before marraige thing which not many parents tell you about but society makes it obvious. I can understand why sometimes but then it just beats the fun out of life as a youth I guess :|