My first thread for relationship advice... :/

Hang on, hang on a second here. OP are you saying that her ex is sleeping over at her house?

Lol pull yourself together man! You are bottom of the pile here; the ex is held in higher regard than you. Just leave ffs.
 
Swifty55 said:
For the last 5 months I've been very happy. It's been great. It's just this last month has taken is toll somewhat.

I mean every relationship has problems - the easy way out would be just to walk away, wouldn't it?

Then again, that would make me same as the others...

I know there's times where you've just got to call it a day - but that should be after we've tried to sort it, right?
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lol dont stay out of pride and principles of being a good guy. she isnt putting you first and never ever will, so you have to put yourself first! let someone else be the mug :)
if anything you've already taken the easy ;) way out by dating a milf instead of starting on a fresh canvas with someone without restrictive baggage and drama.
 
Take it from someone who's been in a similar relationship but further down the line, leave now.

I was with a lass with a kid. Everything was hunky-dory, after 11 months they both moved in (my place had so many positives, closer to her work, her parents, ,my parents etc). The kid would go to his dad's and it was all fine. Until 5 months later. She asked if the kid's dad could have him at ours this weekend, with some excuse about his place not being suitable (building works). I said I wasn't really comfortable but as a one-off I was willing to bend. That was a big mistake. Things went from bad to worse thereon in The one-off became a regularly asking to use our place and she, like the op's missus, used the "at least he's coming to see his kid" excuse.

In the end I gave her the ultimatum. He doesn't come round anymore other than to pick-up/drop off or they both leave.

Yes it sounds like a ****** thing to do and yes I felt like **** for doing it but I wasn't going to become 3rd rate in my own home.
 
Thing that gets me about single mums like this is they don't want YOU. They want a wallet orjust ssomeone. Obviously there are exceptions but I'd..

B.. B.. Bail!

Just read last posts.. Correct decision
 
pingwing said:
*starts drumming* dun dun dun dun dun dun dun
whum whum whummmm, whum whum whummm, whummm whum whum, whummm whuum whuum...
WHITE MAN CAME, ACROSS THE SEA, HE BOUGHT US PAIN, AND MISERY, HE KILLED OUR TRIBE, HE KILLED OUR CREED, HE TOOK OUR GAME, FOR HIS OWN NEED, WE FAUGHT HIM HARD, WE FAUGHT HIM WELL, OUT OON THE PLAINS, WE GAVE HIM HELL, WHEN IT BECAME TOO MUCH FOR CREED, WILL WE EVER BE SET FREE....
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Epic! Not only a fantastic song but so appropriate
 
Swifty55 said:
Feel **** now though. :(
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You are going to feel **** for a while. You'll miss the physical intimacy, the emotional release (it's nice to have someone to talk to stuff about), hell even just sharing a bed.

You're going to think of her ****ing other men, and think GD are *********. She wasn't that bad, you could have worked it through.


The real result is that you can find yourself a lovely lady without baggage and have the opportunity to start a real relationship, with real happiness, and possibility of your own family.

You were going to be just another number and another kid. Happiness in that relationship was never going to be yours.

Still, await the possibility of a text saying you've got a kid anyway. :p
 
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