my rubbish life in one week.

garyfl · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:14

so first of all my dad passes away

its been so hard for me and im finding it hard to cope with this, reality still hasnt kicked in,

then my gf of a year calls a break

then i find out shes been cheating on mewith another guy

stoooory of my life.

i called to ask for the £100 bracelet and £50 that i gave her for the boarding lessons on a break we had in which she met the guy on. asked for this back and got her snotty mum on the phone fighting her battles

really cba with this

do i have any legal right to get this stuff back ?

Aedus · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:18

If you gave her the things as a gift, then no you don't have any legal right to get them back.

Redman · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:19

garyfl said:
so first of all my dad passes away

its been so hard for me and im finding it hard to cope with this, reality still hasnt kicked in,

then my gf of a year calls a break

then i find out shes been cheating on mewith another guy

stoooory of my life.

i called to ask for the £100 bracelet and £50 that i gave her for the boarding lessons on a break we had in which she met the guy on. asked for this back and got her snotty mum on the phone fighting her battles

really cba with this

do i have any legal right to get this stuff back ?

Write it off and walk away fella, that's the best thing

mp260767 · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:20

i'd just let it go mate, fair bit of money but the way its happened it wont hold anything but bad memories if you did get them back

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BarBrawllin · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:20

u still got a receipt for it? Sorry to hear about the gf thing ,thats pretty low whats she's done and to come out with it at a time like this.....

forget the receipt thing after reading wat others just posted its probly worth the money just to get rid of her.........a bit of harrasment wouldnt hurt though

just think of it as trolling.

LOAM · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:22

Redman said:
Write it off and walk away fella, that's the best thing

A million times this, its likely hard because you're focusing on the sentiment of it but its not what you need right now and not worth it for £150.

garyfl · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:23

said id ruin the guy and i can and would then her mum got ratty on the phone threatening legal action. typical mumsnet mum as well. i did specifically threaten him and i do admit i just hacked into her facebook JUST to see what scum she really is and it was confirmed too. i am best to just walk away. really sucks though dosent it.

Jolteh · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:26

Steer well clear of her dude. It's not for the hassle for £150.

Anyone that breaks up with a person the week they lose their old man isn't worth your time.

scottmuir424 · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:26

give us all her fb details and all have a shot of trashing her fb account lol better off without tht make other guys done you a favour and taken out the trash for you lol onwards and upwards bud

Jongo · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:26

This is the best advice +

Redman said:
Write it off and walk away fella, that's the best thing

This

BarBrawllin said:
Sorry to hear about the gf thing ,thats pretty low whats she's done and to come out with it at a time like this.....

Your better off without her.

BarBrawllin · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:28

i know how it feels to be suckered and taken for a ride by somebody,i got conned into giving some chick thousands of pounds because of her fake scenarios she made up and felt sorry for her, fell for her manipulations over and over. i wanted to kill the **** lol.

garyfl · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:28

she really is trash and all this has done is made it 10000000x easier to deal with.

Spenty · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:30

Chin the lad then move on.

Megahurtz400 · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:32

Chin up, chest out and move onto better things in your life

garyfl · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:35

its hurts though, i spent a whole year with her, genuinly best relationship i had. she told me never to compare her and shes not like other girls and shes goes and does this. and if thats not bad, whilst shes seeing this guy shes facebook mailing another lad ( a guy shes used as rebound with her previous ex) talking about having "private parties for 2 baby

" it just hurts. ive been hurt a lot to be honest and i feel im better off on my own, i can at least trust myself. smash pasties from now on and only care about myself.

Spenty · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:37

Tbh never trust any woman 100% these days. I'll get slated for that but women could say the same about us men to.

BarBrawllin · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:38

smash the pasties m8 thats how its done. Will take a while to get over it but you'll realise its her loss and done you a favour in the long run.Dont do what i did and start self destructive behaviour doesnt make it better just prolongs the agony.keep the chin up bud

Reaper 392 · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:40

garyfl said:
its hurts though, i spent a whole year with her, genuinly best relationship i had. she told me never to compare her and shes not like other girls and shes goes and does this. and if thats not bad, whilst shes seeing this guy shes facebook mailing another lad ( a guy shes used as rebound with her previous ex) talking about having "private parties for 2 baby " it just hurts. ive been hurt a lot to be honest and i feel im better off on my own, i can at least trust myself. smash pasties from now on and only care about myself.

send screenies of this to her current boyfriend
boyfriend leaves her
???
profit

seriously though, be glad that you found this stuff out now, rather than several years down the line

arc@css · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:41

As mentioned, let it go, and literally ignore if possible. People can't bear having that done to them. They don't know how to handle it and all the time you'll be concentrating on yourself and your family, which is what you need to do right now.

B&W · 24 Mar 2012 at 02:48

shag her mom n record it