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its funny cause i never actually told him i WOULDN'T give him the bracelet back.
contrary to that, his father just passed and all he can fight about is a bracelet bought as a birthday gift?
 
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sianhelen said:
its funny cause i never actually told him i WOULDN'T give him the bracelet back.
contrary to that, his father just passed and all he can fight about is a bracelet bought as a birthday gift?
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Man, you're absolutely nuts.

He's obviously devastated by the loss of his father.

Everyone in the thread has told him to forget about the bracelet and things and move on.

where the hell are the moderators? I think this thread is a potential trigger and should get closed
 
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exhashdotdot said:
Man, you're absolutely nuts.

He's obviously devastated by the loss of his father.

Everyone in the thread has told him to forget about the bracelet and things and move on.

I care about the bracelet because I absolutely hate girls who think they can just take your stuff and not give it back if there's a breakup.
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Have you thought about counselling? They can help you get over things that eat you up.
We cant say either person is lying. If that is so then she has been abused and i dont blame her from walking away.
 
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You really shouldn't give someone something that you would want back if you split up. A gift is a gift, you relinquish ownership the second you give it away.
 
First off my genuine sympathies.

Last year in a space of a couple of months my dad died and my partner and I broke up (Costing me approx £40k), I had all the revenge thoughts etc, but decided that I couldn't be bothered (Pays to be apathetic sometimes), life will get better as long as you can move on.

Hanging on to hate, messing about stirring things up etc will only stop you starting again, grieve for your dad, chill a bit, and you might find the 'right' one, brood and be vengeful and she's won.

Best of luck mate.
 
Well if everything is truthful. A guy has lost his father, he is abusive to girlfriend before and after his fathers passing. She got fed up and left.
 
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the reason why my 'snotty mother' rang last night was to ask him to stop harassing me. i did not cheat, i have not been sleeping around. we broke up around around a month ago, and i have not slept with anyone at all. he knows i am/was here for him with his father, i've been there for the past year. he took me for granted, verbally abused me and i couldn't take it anymore. this happened before his father passed.
there is two sides to every story guys.
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Epic thread is epic.

Your mother should never be speaking to your ex-bf on the phone in the first place. Hiding behind your mummy to deal with your own problems is pathetic.

Gosh its like Jeremy Kyle in here. I CALL FOR DNA TESTING
 
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sianhelen said:
the reason why my 'snotty mother' rang last night was to ask him to stop harassing me. i did not cheat, i have not been sleeping around. we broke up around around a month ago, and i have not slept with anyone at all. he knows i am/was here for him with his father, i've been there for the past year. he took me for granted, verbally abused me and i couldn't take it anymore. this happened before his father passed.
there is two sides to every story guys.
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evidence supports OP being dubious because Sian posts lots of lovey duvey stuff on OP's facebook wall.
 
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She's not lying, you can find her through his facebook (which he has public).

You have a BTEC in sports science, how are we supposed to not judge you?

Give him back his bracelet and **** off.
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Dude, nobody gives a **** about who added you on facebook. I don't care about the whole story, he asked for his **** back, you should be a decent person and do that.

Just give him his bracelet back, for God's sake.
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Everyone in the thread has told him to forget about the bracelet and things and move on.
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Not only are your posts contradictory, what is up with your attitude? Just calm down? Also, bringing facebook into this - just no. You can stop that right now.

Life doesn't sound ideal for the OP but posting on somewhere where the complainee is going to read it is a pretty big error.
 
didnt actually think she would take it upon herself to search the internet to see if i say anything about her. i would like to take it upon myself to be the better person nad explain this thread was only a rant, it was completely anonymous and nothing more needed to be done about this. she chose to post with her full name as a username and i dont want to be taking the flak for that that wasnt my action. it wasa way for me to get what i felt out. yes last night i was angry and ideally this thread shouldnt of bene made but i made it and thats that, it wasnt hurting her considering things were anonymous.

i stated facts, when you go on a break with the intention of not seeing other people then as far as im aware you are on a break with the intention of not seeing other people? .. it can be twisted whatever way it likes to be twisted but fact is, when you both agree to that and also blatently say ive not been seeing other people ive used to the time to be myself. keeping me hanging all this time for me to find out. then whether we were together or not the mutual agreement was still there and i consider that cheating.

regardless, it wasnt a month ago, it was 2 weeks ago if that and already out there looking. its not who i am and i can only find comfort that im not wasting my time anymore, i hurt and it will for a while but all i can do is get on with it. the thread was never here to slate her, personally. nobody knew who she was till she posted
 
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