my rubbish life in one week.

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As a suggestion - why don't the two of you just mature up a bit - assume the relationship is over - and stop posting your most intimate feelings on public GD forums for everyone to have a laugh at.....

I understand you both need a bit of sympathy - but this isn't the palce to start ***-for-tat arguments over who said what/when etc. You are both adults after all surely....


It really is worse than Jeremy Kyle.... and surely you both have real mates / relatives that really can be of help. At least that way - you won't be looking at these posts in 5 or 10 years times and wondering why you were being so childish / ridiculous for posting your entire life/emotions for the world to see. Facebook is bad enough - but anyone can see these posts don't forget.
 
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garyfl said:
didnt actually think she would take it upon herself to search the internet to see if i say anything about her. i would like to take it upon myself to be the better person nad explain this thread was only a rant, it was completely anonymous and nothing more needed to be done about this. she chose to post with her full name as a username and i dont want to be taking the flak for that that wasnt my action. it wasa way for me to get what i felt out. yes last night i was angry and ideally this thread shouldnt of bene made but i made it and thats that, it wasnt hurting her considering things were anonymous.

i stated facts, when you go on a break with the intention of not seeing other people then as far as im aware you are on a break with the intention of not seeing other people? .. it can be twisted whatever way it likes to be twisted but fact is, when you both agree to that and also blatently say ive not been seeing other people ive used to the time to be myself. keeping me hanging all this time for me to find out. then whether we were together or not the mutual agreement was still there and i consider that cheating.

regardless, it wasnt a month ago, it was 2 weeks ago if that and already out there looking. its not who i am and i can only find comfort that im not wasting my time anymore, i hurt and it will for a while but all i can do is get on with it. the thread was never here to slate her, personally. nobody knew who she was till she posted
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She didnt just seek you out, her account was created in Feb.

Do what i originally said, make yourself a better person from all of this. Make sure you get something from it, see it as an opportunity to take a good look at yourself. Do the right things morally.
 
Heliospherez said:
As a suggestion - why don't the two of you just mature up a bit - assume the relationship is over - and stop posting your most intimate feelings on public GD forums for everyone to have a laugh at.....
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That's a bit harsh, he didn't ask for her to come on here and say any of this, so don't tell him to mature up. Really gets on my nerves when people say things like that, blaming both parties when one is innocent. (Even if it's not in this case, it happens)
 
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