My turn for a (pre?) Relationship thread
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I would say ask her out for a drink/evening meal.
I don't think she would have asked you to lunch on her own as it seemed to foreceful and obvious, which is why she asked her friend along. Woman will spend hours contemplating over such things.
Us blokes can not read them. See how the evening meal/drink goes. If there are good vibes, ask her out again, and try a sly one on the way back.
I don't think she would have asked you to lunch on her own as it seemed to foreceful and obvious, which is why she asked her friend along. Woman will spend hours contemplating over such things.
Us blokes can not read them. See how the evening meal/drink goes. If there are good vibes, ask her out again, and try a sly one on the way back.
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-gem- said:ah, dont you just love meeting someone new and *potentially* exciting?
Absolutely, work gave me my much needed kick into a social life, and im loving it
And whether i end up with her as a friend or a girlfriend, either way ill be happy (although admittedly happier if it was the latter) because she is an amazing person to talk to
Morthoseth said:Absolutely, work gave me my much needed kick into a social life, and im loving it
And whether i end up with her as a friend or a girlfriend, either way ill be happy (although admittedly happier if it was the latter) because she is an amazing person to talk to
Glad you've met someone! Sounds to me like you really want this to happen, maybe take a chance, dont get stuck as a friend then regret your decision not to make a move.
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Thats just it though eh!
Make a move / get accepted / Woohoo!
Make a move / get rejected / chance of friendship loss
Dont make a move / Never know what she would have said / good friend
I suppose i could regret it for a long time if i got stuck in the last bracket knowing it could have been something more.
Need more confidence first though, i think its safe to say im even scared of rejection
Make a move / get accepted / Woohoo!
Make a move / get rejected / chance of friendship loss
Dont make a move / Never know what she would have said / good friend
I suppose i could regret it for a long time if i got stuck in the last bracket knowing it could have been something more.
Need more confidence first though, i think its safe to say im even scared of rejection
Morthoseth said:Thats just it though eh!
Make a move / get accepted / Woohoo!
Make a move / get rejected / chance of friendship loss
Dont make a move / Never know what she would have said / good friend
I suppose i could regret it for a long time if i got stuck in the last bracket knowing it could have been something more.
Need more confidence first though, i think its safe to say im even scared of rejection
Typical situation mate, you just gotta way up the good and bad points, if you really want her though surely its a no brainer?
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Absolutely yes, it is a no brainer, and if the way we interact with eachother continues as it is at the moment, im sure i wont hesistate.
Was just scared thus far as to whether i was reading too far into something which might not even be there if you know what i mean!
I appreciate your advice, and would like to say thanks for posting
Was just scared thus far as to whether i was reading too far into something which might not even be there if you know what i mean!
I appreciate your advice, and would like to say thanks for posting
Ask her out and do it now.
Just say "how would you like to go out for dinner one night this week?"
If you leave it any longer the moment will pass and she will be your friend, which is cool, but not what you really want
Just say "how would you like to go out for dinner one night this week?"
If you leave it any longer the moment will pass and she will be your friend, which is cool, but not what you really want
I don't even thin k you have to with the direct question of asking her out just yet.
Why not email her and say "what you up to this weekend?" She might cotton on to what your saying and might ask you to join her in something...
Why not email her and say "what you up to this weekend?" She might cotton on to what your saying and might ask you to join her in something...