just as I had finally sourced screws, I went to message the guy.
That very hour he had requested a refund on paypal stating only in the claim "Vastly different to how it was advertised, screws missing from product."
To which we obviously contested it, citing a professional opinion and giving a 2000 word text on the circumstances and why his claim was rubbished. IE: he took it apart and so anything was now on him, and that if he was not happy at the start he should have sent it back as the "missing screws" were not with the waterblock fitted card, but a cooler sent as a goodwill gesture, not part of the original listing.
And that because he took it apart it was no longer possible to be sure of the condition or its usability, compared to how we sent it.
To which paypal within 12 hours told him he would get a refund pending return. Safe to say we are beyond pi**ed off and that when we phoned paypal and described the situation to their disputes department, they couldnt understand how they had been told to return it at all. but that now they had we had to wait for a return and then get back in contact. Contacted ebay, they said nothing they can do as its well past their "ebay buyers guarantee" of 30 days, and that a paypal claim is not within their control.
So basically, got to wait for it to be returned. Paypal said if it isnt exactly how I sent it to then immediately get in contact with them.
Such fun....