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Yeah not an issue for me at all, my girlfriend is half Chinese and half Indian and I find it a lovely mix ;) (I'm caucasian)

Her parents are fairly religious too and it does throw up some interesting situations/conversations sometimes (I don't follow a religion) but I guess as long as they see their daughter happy then that's all they care about. I appreciate that this may not be the case for all families though to be fair.
 
AshM said:
Yeah not an issue for me at all, my girlfriend is half Chinese and half Indian and I find it a lovely mix ;) (I'm caucasian)

Her parents are fairly religious too and it does throw up some interesting situations/conversations sometimes (I don't follow a religion) but I guess as long as they see their daughter happy then that's all they care about. I appreciate that this may not be the case for all families though to be fair.
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Its a shame its not the case here...:( *sigh*
 
zain said:
Oh ok I didnt know you were a member of the justice league.

So far hes disowned his religion and his race, its whats known as a sell out. Sadly, what he fails to realise is his religion is beautiful as well as his culture. Very sad indeed.
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How he is sad in the slightest, I've no idea, you realise that your comment is hardly the least racist here. What's wrong with preffering women of a different race, if I said I favoured black women, would you call me a sellout too?

And as to his religion, a little joke does not make him a sellout, he's actually stated that he could not forego his religious beliefs, but would have to find a way to incorporate them.

Get a grip.

Ant :cool:
 
sr4470 said:
Its a shame its not the case here...:( *sigh*
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:(

One of my closest friends is Indian, and according to him his parents are very strict regarding who he should be with, so much so to the point that he went out with a caucasian girl for almost 6 years, from when we left school until right past university, and the whole time his parents knew nothing of it.

The whole thing ended eventually because she got so upset that he hadn't told them. Now he's been with another caucasian girl for almost a year, and he still hasn't told them about her. I hope this time he actually does.

But my point is that I have seen first hand how a situation such as yours can affect things, so for your sake I hope that it is something you can sort out in time, as I'm sure neither of you like having to keep it hidden from family members.
 
zain said:
I think you're a sellout ~ no offence
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I personally think that your pretty much a moron tbh, its people like you that give us muslims a bad name and yes im sick to the back teeth of people like you.

I guess you better put me as a sell out as well, seeing as most of my ex gfs have been non asian and non muslim, although my current one is muslim and asian but thats besides the point.

Personally i dont think Asim is a sell out, hes admitted that he hasnt forgone his religion as he stated it does cause him problems...much like me who had those same problems when dating non muslim and non asian women.

Seriously Zain, stop being a judgemental so and so, the world im afraid to say isnt so black and white.
 
AshM said:
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But my point is that I have seen first hand how a situation such as yours can affect things, so for your sake I hope that it is something you can sort out in time, as I'm sure neither of you like having to keep it hidden from family members.
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"Sorting out" will probably mean her moving in with me, but theres no other way of solving it. Especially considering if her parents find out, she'll be shipped off to a boarding school abroad.
 
Nozzer said:
Bet you've never seen a hot eskimo.
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I have:p, went to school with one when i was living in Canada and yes she was hot...its really no wonder she moved from being up in eskimo land to Toronto...she was melting all the snow there :p
 
sr4470 said:
"Sorting out" will probably mean her moving in with me, but theres no other way of solving it. Especially considering if her parents find out, she'll be shipped off to a boarding school abroad.
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Ouch, I'm not sure at all how I'd cope with a situation like that, must be tough. I'm very lucky that I get on well with my girlfriend's parents, it's a shame not everyone can be fortunate in that respect.

Hope it works out for you :)
 
AshM said:
Ouch, I'm not sure at all how I'd cope with a situation like that, must be tough. I'm very lucky that I get on well with my girlfriend's parents, it's a shame not everyone can be fortunate in that respect.

Hope it works out for you :)
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Put it this way...I thought Indian conservative families were bad, then I discovered this
 
I'm glad that practically everyone here is so open to different ways of life and respects the decisions of others. The minority always have to spoil it. Thanks for the support from those who backed up my opinion.
 
Yep - hot is hot, regardless of race.

Having said that, certain races tend to be more physically appealing to me than others - but that's purely because I like slim girls with elfin features (so high-caste Indian girls f t w) while I'm not really into big butts + boobs.
 
The thing is, most people from other races are so much more beautiful than any english girl I've met. I'm English (caucasian), but for some reason I've only been out with two english girls.

The rest were French, Chinese, Italian, Russian.. They were all beauties :D
 
Everybody is allowed there opinion and mine is we should try to maintain a decent strain of white blood. There is great diversity in the world and individual cultures and races are what make this world so great. I think our own culture is diluted enouth and feel it is our responsibility to maintain a true blood line.
I do Not agree with mixed marriages. In my experience they do not work in most cases and those that do are usually made up of sell outs to there own culture/race.
 
Yeah, I would. Not sure what my family would think about it though.

However, in general I don't find many black women attractive. Sure, there are some stunners, but I'd probably take an average white/asian girl over an average black girl on the looks front.
 
I think the desire to go out with the same race rather than other races is a perfectly natural thing, it ensures that your gene pool is kept "pure" i.e. continue to race-line. I think that's just nature at work.

However I would have no problems going out with:

Chinese/Japanese/Korean - Some of them are soo hot it makes me growl. A good-looking oriental woman will stand out a mile in any room when compared to a sea of generic good-looking blondes and brunettes.

Black women - Hmm also hit and miss fo me. I'm a big fan of tight bums and fine features, and considering many women of this ethnicity have larger rears and flatter features then it's not all that common I see ones i'd like to get biblical with. However, put me in a room with a good-looking half-cast girl and she will be luck to get out alive, yum!

Latinas - *swoon*. I'll take 5 please.

Asian Indian/Pakistani - Hmm can be very hit and miss here. The majority of women i've seen from these part of asia aren't too hot... it only tends to be the models and movie stars (especially pakistani "Bollywood" types that really get me going. All-in-all, not my faves, but some are exquisitely beautiful... you just don't see them on the street... well I haven't anyway.

Brazilian - Hawt! Brazilian women are not only rather free when it comes to getting their kit off, they also tend to have amazing bodes and a mind dragged straight form the gutter. Woot!

However the above is just going on looks and instant attraction really, personality always counts for a lot, so with that in mind things can change for everyone.
 
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Somewhat to my surprise, this thread has been a captivating read, though personally I think there have been some comments and attitudes that show the murkier side of human nature.

My view is that colour of skin has absolutely zero impact on who I would or would not go out with. Cultural background might, but skin colour would not.

So, when talking about another "race", I'd need to define exactly what I meant by that. Going out with a girl from some backgrounds, perhaps such as (but not limited to) Asian could cause problems. I would not, for instance, be prepared to spend very long hiding the relationship from the girl's family. That might, in turn, cause a level of aggravation that just wasn't worth dealing with.

So, it'd be her cultural background, in that case, that would be the issue, not her race.

Personally, I regard racial differences as entirely superficial, and the planet would be far better off if we were all the same in that regard, whatever race that was. It's one of the reasons I like forum chat - you can have a discussion (be it quiet, heated or intense) without even knowing the background of the person you're debating with, so you can't have any preconceptions about their stance, position or opinion. The same is true of age, sex and educational background.

So no, a girl of another race would hold no problems for me. Another culture, however, ..... maybe. It would depend on what happened. My main criteria for selecting a girl to spend time with is what's between her ears. Looks, let alone colour, is very peripheral to that. I want someone who's company I enjoy, who I want to be with, spend time with, and nothing that doesn't affect that matters.
 
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