A few cars ago i had a mint E46 BMW330CI in sapphire black, tasteful mods, nice. I stressed a bit about parking it in car parks where it might get damaged etc. Eventually, i crashed it. Not a big one, but it was written off due to age etc. At the time i was doing a long commute and the three litre petrol was pricey on petrol.
I wanted something cheap to buy and cheap to run, without being boring. It was only me in it 99% of the time so i bought a three year old Alfa Mito Diesel with 55,000 miles. this was early 2014 i think. it looked good overall, but was covered in stone chips and the odd little dent. it was nice just not worrying about it, and just parking it wherever. That little mito did me proud, we used it during the early child years too. Replaced with with an equally tatty Leon estate, which is the wifes car, and i do confess to using it if i'm going somewhere with rubbish parking, or a bit dodgy.
Then in 2018 i bought a brand new Alfa Giulia (my wife had the mito) proper paranoid about it getting damaged. within the first three months, some nob hit it with a shopping trolley or something and put a small but sharp dent in the back and i got a chip in the windscreen. got both sorted, and managed to keep it pretty mint from then. settled the finance after three years for £16K then sold it nearly two years later for £22K (shortages etc)
Now i have a BMW 128ti that i bought new. again, within three months, a deer ran into the side of the car putting a dent in the rear door and someone clipped the mirror. Proper paranoid about it again. people round here just drive in the middle of the road, and lunge over to there side when i come along, often, just in the nick of time. It does my head in. I still use the leon if im parking in the town or the retail park. I do the tactical parking thing too. Back of the car park for me.
i get a car allowance from work, and it needs to be less than five years old. tempted to not go new next time, but the finance deals on "nearly new" cars are usually dreadful, so it would need to be cheap... dunno, i'll worry about that in a few years.
need to replace the leon at some point too. tempted by the new kia Sportage, nice looking cars, and a decent amount of boot space. if i end up with two nice cars though.. what am i going to do??!??!?