Yeah my girl has had a cough for like 10 days. Started with a temperature then a cough she couldn't shake. Chicken pox was on the rampage at our nursery so we thought it might be that. Had a couple spots come up last weekend, but then they disappeared so now we aren't sure (unless she just got a very mild case). Either that or it's just a standard winter bug.
Having similar here with our 1.5 year old. But we've all had a virus & cough cold, for me (usually fairly healthy) I'm into the 4th week. For him he just has a lingering cough when he first goes down at night, or first starts stirring in the morning and it wakes him up. Thankfully doesn't bother him. Had chickenpox around his nursery and he had a couple of extra spots but didn't amount to anything, then last week one of his closest friends at nursery came down with viral
meningitis. Cue lots of panic, but thankfully no change to him or any kind of symptoms. Thankfully they caught it very early (poor thing woke up with a head to toe rash!) and is back at nursery.
Just had the 12 week scan for our 2nd. Was so excited, you tend to only think about seeing your baby and getting a nice picture to take away
But we were told there was a high NT measurement, 5cm when the cause for concern starts at 3.5. This means the baby is at higher risk of things like Downs or heart defects among other things. The risk only goes up the higher above 3.5 you go. Obviously, it can mean nothing and there's also many normal reasons it could be high. I've stupidly been on Google all morning now which as you'd expect has only made things worse
We've had the bloods taken which will give us a clearer indication. But I'm going to pay for a private NIPT which is 99% accurate.
I'm just so deflated
I know it could well be fine, but I just can't help think the worst
Wait for the tests mate, they'll give you risk factors & %'s but it's all guesswork until further along/birth. Our little boy was measured with a large head one of his scans and they panicked rushing us in for other tests and scans. Gave us an increased % of downs etc but he was born perfectly healthy. Even when small the health visitors expressed concern over his head measurements, one even prompted a visit to see a specialist (who took a look and then was completely annoyed why we'd been caused so much worry and sent in, as it was a perfectly normal measurement). We just put it down to me having a slightly large head, so little Harry has. We soon learnt to 'hate' those health visitor visits - they would always seem condescending and 'looking' for a problem, but I guess that's their job. He's perfectly fine and healthy, top of the curve with progress and generally playing with kids 4-6 months older than him. Walked day before his first birthday (10+ steps).
Trust your midwives and the ones who know what they're doing. Be sceptical of the 'health visitor' types as much of the time they'd 'making you aware' just because there's a tiny amount of increased risk.
currently 27 weeks with our first child - bricking it is an understatement
How did you guys do during the 2 weeks paternity, any tips?
Catch up on sleep for a week or two beforehand. Stock up on it! Organise everything you can, almost planning a routine on a rolling 3 hour schedule over 24h. It really helps to 'know what's coming up' rather than just being caught out. You don't then forget to do simple things like eat (as we did once and couldn't figure out why that day we where so tired). You will both be emotional wrecks, so throw in some lack of sleep and you'll be snapping at each other then the next minute be in tears because the little bundle made a new noise/smiled at you. Things with your partner will be tested, but it will also make some incredibly strong bonds between you. One of the hardest things at that early stage is getting some time for yourself - same with your other half. You either have to suck that up and not worry (as I did initially), or share out some of the duties to give the other one some time off (came along later). We where really lucky as within a few days he was sleeping through his 3am feed so we both got 6h unbroken sleep. We also shared the midnight & 6am feeds, so whoever did the nighttime skipped the morning, so could both generally get 7-8h sleep to catch up a little.
We generally did everything together the first few days and that really helped me to feel like I was involved. Think I changed more nappies than mum did. Feeding can really cause some worries but the little ones are very resilient - after 2 days we gave up breast feeding (little one not interested/not getting enough) and moved to expressing. Worked really well, but within a week she couldn't express enough for our bottomless pit so switched to a combination with formula. After 2 weeks gave up expressing (she would be expressing for 2 days just to get enough for 1 feed) and switched to formula alone. He grew fast, drank loads more than the 'recommended' but continued to progress fast so we just became 'baby lead' rather than sticking to set amounts. He still drinks more than most kids now, just water during the day and will polish off at least a litre most days.