Soldato
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I find it strange that you think it's acceptable to refer to a colleague as a retard.
You should come to my office. It's like watching What's Eating Gilbert Grape.
I find it strange that you think it's acceptable to refer to a colleague as a retard.
Surely the only "bad" joke is one which isn't funny?
Otherwise, yeah I agree, it's important to judge your audience!

My 'claim to fame' with regard to this was back when I was captain of a football team.
Post-match banter in the changing rooms, our black striker was first in the shower (as always) swinging his tool around telling and showing everybody the size, and explaining what he will do to us white boys once we join him in the shower. This prompted all sorts of responses such as 'go back home on the banana boat you came from', etc. The banter back and forth went on for quite some time.
I then had to put a stop to it, it was getting out of hand.
'C'mon lads calm down, we are all mates here, and I for one will not have any form of racism in this team, I personally have nothing against black people... I think everyone should own one'
Our striker was not happy.
Thank you guys for this game. My housemate's infant son died after 5 days. A few weeks later we're playing CAH with some friends from out of town. The father draws the 'In the Future we will use ______ as money.' We play the turn and the last card from the answer stack is 'Dead Babies'. Looking around the room everyone is just stunned and quiet. The father then says, 'I have to give it to the person who had the balls to play that card.' There's a long pause as everyone's looking to see who's going to own up to it. A few long seconds go by and then the mother of the child slowly raises her hand and says, 'me.' Everyone bursts out laughing, including both parents. That was the first time that either parent had really laughed since their son died. So, thanks for that.
I always thought it was acceptable to make fun of peoples' choices NOT aspects of their lives over which they had no control. In my opinion it would be perfectly acceptable to make fun of someone's attire, chattels, life choices etc but to make fun at their loss of a child, a rape or child abuse would be totally unacceptable.
That's really offensive.
It's either funny or it's not. There is no 'Offensive'. If you find yourself continually being 'Offended' by things, it's you with the problem. Nothing to do with anyone else.
Well doofer god forbid, if your wife had had a miscarriage, a still birth or whatever, your virginal daughter had been gang raped, and one of your works colleague continued to make jokes about it, would you NOT be offended? As such from what you have written it would be you with the problem, it is "nothing to do with anyone else"
And I think therein lies the problem, many of these people who get offended by everything are also the sort of people who think the world revolves around them.
It's either funny or it's not. There is no 'Offensive'. If you find yourself continually being 'Offended' by things, it's you with the problem. Nothing to do with anyone else.