one day before my stroke, I hit my gaming PUBG dream (a cautionary tale)

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I found this screenshot from when I was arguing with PUBG customer service, More on that later!
I'd been playing PUBG pretty much since release, and after they released seasons, I would always end up with around 2000 SP at the end of the season,
Come season 5 I had 2000 SP around half way through the season, I had yet to get an in game parachute skin at all, not even the halloween one, so I thought meh, screw this this, I'm going for gold, like, I only had 4000 SP to go to reach the top rank in season 5 to get the white spider parachute skin .easy, right?
I'd been driving more than ever to and fro my long distance girlfriend before I made this decision.
It eventually became apparent that there was no way I was going to make it to 6k SP relying on teaming up with randoms, as I needed to get SP points in every single match if I was going to make it, so I decided to queue up as a duo, and just play the match as a solo player, I was pretty damn good, so I could handle myself like this, I had super low ping and playing solo in duos, it was just the only way it was possible, sometimes my alloted duo partner caught me up to help me win the match, but most often I'd just make it to the top 10 to snag some points on my own, which was not really any different to droping in with my usual IRL friend to do duos with, who generally I'd get the first 2k SP with
So, for the rest of the season, like 3 weeks, I was totally glued to my PC grinding out 6k SP for that damn 'chute, skin
eventually I made it, which felt amazing, yay!( what a rush)
except the next day I had a stroke!
Little did I know that I'd never get, nor even equip it ,
If only I'd have made it for 2 days to the end of the season instead, then I'd've collected the rewards, and been able to play at least one match, with a mega awesome parachute skin, but no, massive stroke was my destiny instead!
So then, as some of you know, I spent 6 months spread between hospital, and a rehabilitation home
After getting out of the care home, I was looking forward to turning my computer on, and at least collecting my 'chute, and clothes skins for being a 6k SP survivour, but *nothing* happened I'd waited too long to pick up the rewards it seemed ( what a let down!)
I did try to talk to PUBG CS about this, but they were not having any of it, and did not give me my rewards even tough in game stats clearly show that I was a season 5 survivour
and here is the proof:



Moral of the story?
don't stick with a long distance relationship, quit it and find someone closer, even if you have a child with them, ( I did,)
Along with this, if you are going to be glued to a PC, then take the time to walk around every now and then, to keep your blood from pooling in your legs, same with if you are doing any long distance driving, take stops, and walk around
definitely have your cholesterol checked too, and get on statins if you need them, when I was taken into hospital, they found my cholestrol was sky high, and immediately I was put on statins, along with blood thinners
while I was away, I did not get any better, losing the left hand side of my body, so I had to face that I was never going to play another computer game that needed my left hand!( I play chess now.)
But while I was away PUBG also introduced being able to use your parachute again, and again, base jump style, so I would have got a lot of use out of that skin, striking fear into other player's hearts out there
It just wasn't meant to be :-(


So, look after yourselves out there,
Please.
:D
 
Strokes are brutal. My old man had one at 49 on his right side, took his speech and he never got it back :( Right leg and hand too. He did learn to draw really well with his left hand though. Hope you manage to get some use back and yeah look after yourself people.
 
Tough times re the stroke...

So, for the rest of the season, like 3 weeks, I was totally glued to my PC grinding out 6k SP for that damn 'chute, skin

But I think you serious need to reconsider whether you should be giving up relationships, children, and your health, over an in game bunch of pixels??

Like I say, I hope you recover and get back on track, but in the meantime, have a long term look at your situation and consider the future for yourself, rather than playing pc games for days at a time....
 
Sorry to hear about your stroke. I think the moral of the story here is just look after yourself and stop worrying too much about a video game. I don’t know the significance of a parachute skin or if there’s money in PUBG but try to stay focused on prioritising health and wellbeing. :)
thanks, exactly this, you put it much better than I could,
there is very little money items in PUBG unless you have the trenchcoat that you got from pre-ordering the game, If I sold all my marketable items I'd maybe get £20
The 'chute skins are more to show other players that you mean buisiness, that you are a good player! and mybe to avoid you as you land, meaning less people going for your loot, all the twitch streamers out there have them given away from special cometitions, orfrom getting 6k SP in a season,
I'd just started streaming me play so eventually I would need a cool 'chute skin to show off while streaming
 
One of my friend had a stroke about 3 months ago, he was a very hard worker, glued to his compute even on his days off. He too had high cholesterol, and just sat in front of his computer all day, 18hrs a day.

Long distance relationship isn’t his problem, he is married and have a child. He is only 46.

I saw him at the hospital before he was released, he seem to be cognitively sound but like you he has lost the use of his left side. Rehab is going to take a while and he has a new perspective on where he spends his time now.
 
Tough times re the stroke...



But I think you serious need to reconsider whether you should be giving up relationships, children, and your health, over an in game bunch of pixels??

Like I say, I hope you recover and get back on track, but in the meantime, have a long term look at your situation and consider the future for yourself, rather than playing pc games for days at a time....
thanks, it's too late for me now, and I cannot drive to keep up the relationship, she has moved on now anyway, the stroke was a long time ago (2020)she left me when I got out of the care home, it was obvious that we could never manage a proper relationship again and no way was she gonna be able to drive to see me from Scotland like I drove to see her from England to scotland, her being self employed and all, and me not being able to have sex properly, I guess at least my ' pleasure' hand was not affecte, I guess
Our child has grown up a lot now, and is at uni in Edinburg, it's a real kick in the balls, not being able to drive up to see him there
But I'll always know that I made it to the top in PUBG, as it is no mean feat doing that! it took some real dedication, even it it did screw me over
I'm more posting this to warn other that they should stay active, as I'm sure that there are a lot of people here who sit at a PC for a long time.
I still love her, tragically
 
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I saw him at the hospital before he was released, he seem to be cognitively sound but like you he has lost the use of his left side. Rehab is going to take a while and he has a new perspective on where he spends his time now.
It sure is cruel, don't expect too much of him recovery wise, I was positive that I was going to get somewhat better, since I'd been sent to a rehabilitation home, and all, but nothing got better, I'm glad that he and I both had right hand side of the brain strokes, because that avoids the speech center of the left side of the brain
Not being able to talk would be unbearable
and the only way out is almost impossible with only one arm/hand, unless you had a shotgun license beforehand and even then loading the shells would be pretty hard!
 
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PUBG is great.

I play several hours most weekday afternoons, on company time hehe.

I do go out for a walk for an hour most weekdays though, and I do push ups, sit ups and some kettle bell exercises for about 20-30 minutes most weekdays.

I guess you must have been pretty good, hate to say it but they gave away parachute skins pretty easily these days, I'm not bothered about any of that cosmetic **** in the slightest anyway.

Hopefully you recover enough so you can play again, there is a guy who is able to play PUBG with his mouth (Google it) so anything is possible.
 
eed any help, what is wrong with savouring the memory of achieving something? even if it contributed to a stroke
getting at least one SP point was tough satisfying stuffstuff on the way to 6k, and reaching the top spot was exhilarating

Because it’s not real, whereas your partner and kid are. You’re proud of something, great. But you need all kinds of help, hopefully one day soon you’ll realise. Until then, all the best.
 
I found this screenshot from when I was arguing with PUBG customer service, More on that later!
I'd been playing PUBG pretty much since release, and after they released seasons, I would always end up with around 2000 SP at the end of the season,
Come season 5 I had 2000 SP around half way through the season, I had yet to get an in game parachute skin at all, not even the halloween one, so I thought meh, screw this this, I'm going for gold, like, I only had 4000 SP to go to reach the top rank in season 5 to get the white spider parachute skin .easy, right?
I'd been driving more than ever to and fro my long distance girlfriend before I made this decision.
It eventually became apparent that there was no way I was going to make it to 6k SP relying on teaming up with randoms, as I needed to get SP points in every single match if I was going to make it, so I decided to queue up as a duo, and just play the match as a solo player, I was pretty damn good, so I could handle myself like this, I had super low ping and playing solo in duos, it was just the only way it was possible, sometimes my alloted duo partner caught me up to help me win the match, but most often I'd just make it to the top 10 to snag some points on my own, which was not really any different to droping in with my usual IRL friend to do duos with, who generally I'd get the first 2k SP with
So, for the rest of the season, like 3 weeks, I was totally glued to my PC grinding out 6k SP for that damn 'chute, skin
eventually I made it, which felt amazing, yay!( what a rush)
except the next day I had a stroke!
Little did I know that I'd never get, nor even equip it ,
If only I'd have made it for 2 days to the end of the season instead, then I'd've collected the rewards, and been able to play at least one match, with a mega awesome parachute skin, but no, massive stroke was my destiny instead!
So then, as some of you know, I spent 6 months spread between hospital, and a rehabilitation home
After getting out of the care home, I was looking forward to turning my computer on, and at least collecting my 'chute, and clothes skins for being a 6k SP survivour, but *nothing* happened I'd waited too long to pick up the rewards it seemed ( what a let down!)
I did try to talk to PUBG CS about this, but they were not having any of it, and did not give me my rewards even tough in game stats clearly show that I was a season 5 survivour
and here is the proof:



Moral of the story?
don't stick with a long distance relationship, quit it and find someone closer, even if you have a child with them, ( I did,)
Along with this, if you are going to be glued to a PC, then take the time to walk around every now and then, to keep your blood from pooling in your legs, same with if you are doing any long distance driving, take stops, and walk around
definitely have your cholesterol checked too, and get on statins if you need them, when I was taken into hospital, they found my cholestrol was sky high, and immediately I was put on statins, along with blood thinners
while I was away, I did not get any better, losing the left hand side of my body, so I had to face that I was never going to play another computer game that needed my left hand!( I play chess now.)
But while I was away PUBG also introduced being able to use your parachute again, and again, base jump style, so I would have got a lot of use out of that skin, striking fear into other player's hearts out there
It just wasn't meant to be :-(


So, look after yourselves out there,
Please.
:D
How quickly did you get medical attention when you had your stroke?
 
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