@NLPD1S
To answer your questions as best I can. I don't know what make the PoE module is, it's a generic cheap model that was given to me by a friend. I will look when I'm home (as I'm on holiday in GU-Land right now) and see if it's got any labels on it but it works and it works well. I'm feeding the 9V output into a £1 DC-DC voltage converter from eBay which I've set to around 5.2v and I feed that into the Pi. I've soldered a wire from the 5v GPIO pins to the bias-tee injector which is what's powering the RTL-SDR LNA.
If you can use a Pi4 then absolutely you should go for it. It can handle the Airspy at 20MHz which is better than the 12MHz maximum you'll get with a Pi3B+
Personally, I'm not a fan of the Uputronics LNA because I've seen how badly 2m can totally kill the front end. I'd go with the RTL-SDR LNA every time.