there's no option for both
I suppose I technically own the house my ex lives in and I rent the place I live in now, I'm 34.
As an observation, there's a lot of talk as there always is about renting being a waste of money, buy a house blah blah especially from a couple of, frankly, kids.. there is another side to this.
In the last 2 years I've rented 5 houses, I've moved from southampton, to poole, to bournemouth then with a months notice to woking for work and until recently I was toying with the idea of moving to either salisbury, back to bournemouth, into london or staying put. A prospective new employer got to have a say in where I lived and I have the flexibility to let my dream job dictate where I live without massive upheaval.
I'm moving in about 7 weeks, not entirely sure where to but it'll be fun, I can upsize and downsize as I see fit, if something breaks it gets fixed, if the roof leaks well chin up, it's not my problem, got subsidence? I couldn't care less.. etc etc, I had some people move in next to me who for some reason love making phone calls at 6am and wake me up. Rather than get into some huge argument about it I'm just moving! Its quite an adventure!
Plus, my last experience of owning a house wasn't all that great, I had an entirely sensible 70% mortgage through northern rock, then the world went **** up and they pretty much closed for business after doubling the interest rate, we were in a credit crunch, the banks had all given up doing any kind of business so I was stuffed, couldn't move the mortgage, could afford it but only just etc etc and the equity pretty much vanished.
The "profit" you make is rarely realised in any material way, my first flat cost £40k, sold it for £130k, bought a house for £200k, sold it for £250k. The house I bought for £200k was £65k when I bought the flat for £40k... so where't the profit? I'd call that inflation more likely. I wonder how some of these kids who are bleating about mortgages at 24 will feel when the interest rates start shooting up again which they will at some point, it's just a matter of time you can use history to prove that point.
Plus what about when you want to change jobs, change lifestyle but you're imprisoned by the bricks you've bought which you can never get any value out of in real terms because you need somewhere to live until you die at which point you're dead?
The only time a mortgage makes sense to me is when you've paid it off which many won't do until they're almost dead.
However, it's just one persons view from both sides of the fence!
I like renting, and I'm not "wrong" it's a choice and you can't be wrong with one of those if you're happy with it!